Honestly me currently. Mine isn’t the first time, but I remember the feeling of loosing someone of the same sex for the first time and being scared. You got this! You’ve waited a while, tell her how you feel! And if you’d like to talk about it more in depth just shoot me a message
You should look for signs
And don’t try to force your feelings on her at once. Just take it slowly until you feel like she’s into you too then u can tell her comfortably about how you feel.
Good luck!!
I feel like it would be better to approach her irl if you can, cause private messages can become awkward real quick when you don't know someone.
If you're not sure if she'd date a girl or not, just start by being friends and you'll probably know the answer after a while.
Good luck with that girl. '^'
First off, get to know her (text and talk face to face like hang out or get some Starbucks!)...then read the signs...when good enough friends, tell her how u feel..
I've had a crush for 8 fucking months and I have no idea what to do. I feel like this is my first crush and I'm 10 again. I'm an 18 year old girl and this is my first crush on another girl. I saw her and my heart fell into my ass. I follow her on IG and ever so often when she posts, I leave a comment. I don't even know if she's into the idea of dating another girl. When do I finally make a move and message her? Also, I haven't mentioned to my family that I may or may not be a lesbian, or at least bi. If you reply, please be at least 17+