I know right! I think if our partner notice something’s wrong just by the change of our actions or something and they try to talk to us about it I think people would be a little bit more honest with their feelings, because we (specially women) tend to just hide and bury our insecurities just so we don’t burden our partner.
Oh, all the pent up feelings of just waiting for someone to notice how terrible you feel. Goodness, it's a dream to think someone could just look at you for how you act and see something's wrong, but I feel it may be an unrealistic expectation (especially early on in a relationship), which is why you sometimes just have to say "Hey, everything sucks right now, wanna stay in tonight and eat ice cream while watching cartoons and I might periodically cry, but heck, get the tissues, let's cuddle." Now I want ice cream. Thanks, internet!
True, this is all just wishful thinking cause I know men are not wizards lol. But, yeah it’s hard to be honest at the early stage of the relationship there’s too many “what ifs” in our mind. It’s would really help the relationship if both of you can be straight forward with your feelings cause it builds a stronger connection between you two.
The world would be so much more convenient (and maybe a bit painful) if we were all just straightforward with our feelings.
Amen to that
I wish I had a boyfriend that could smell my sadness...