I feel your pain although my situation isn't as bad, I can't really give you advice cause I haven't exactly gotten out of my situation but just hold on.
I hope things get easier for you. It sounds very stressful.
Things won’t always be this bad. One day when you move out you won’t have to deal with him anymore so that’s something to look forward to.
U r stuck, basically plan ur moving out or something similar. Im not always satisfied with myself but it's just recently I started to think differently. And it took me 20 years to do so...but I try to remind myself that I'm such a precious person and that I should treat myself as such.
This may sound like a lot of bullshit to you since you don't seem to have that mindset yet. But love yourself for what you are. When you can do that, many things will change
Man you must be hurting everyday...stuck in an uncomfortable place and with the fact that you out right hat3 yourself. I wish I could give you a hug or some type of comfort but I suck at it and hugs are what I do. Cheer up my friend!!!
Every Muslim girl is suffering from the same shit, me too I was forced to wear the hijab and my family is religious too, the thing we can do is studying really hard get a degree make money and run away from that shit or that what I'm hoping to do.
I know it's hard but just do as he want for now so he won't harm you
Stay strong <3
Prove that you’re better than him, keep working hard and you’ll get that life you wanted, a life better than your dads.
I wish you freedom soon.
woah thank you so much! i get what you mean thank you so much really this actually motivates me to think differently i guess
exactly what i’m doing right now, i guess i should just have patience and it’ll all be good soon
yes!!! thank you i’m working hard <3
Yes until you get the power to change this you have to be patient
hope it will get better very soon :(
What do you mean every muslim girl?
This doesn't happen everywhere. Just because your parents don't know how to raise a kid doesn't mean we all are suffering.
I belong to a religious family too but forcing someone to do something is just wrong and i'm completely against it. I know it must be hard for you and i hope it gets better but please don't make every muslim parent into the bad guys.
Most Muslim girls will make it better?
well thank you so much but I'm talking here about what I'm seeing in the whole country I'm in which is a Muslim country.
*By that I didn't mean every single girl in the world *
I rooting for you all!(๑•ㅂ•)و✧ I hope that you can be free from the stupid will of other humans, I dont understand why they think that because they give birth to you they completely own your life, that is just soo disrespectful
Yeah and they treat a boy with all those values not there.
My brother is allowed to do literally everything which is not accepted in our religion.
I don’t blame Islam at all tho... ppl just use it to control girls .
When two ppl do something bad, it is always the girl that is gonna take the blame, the boy is excused just cuz he is one.
I had a relationship (not intense one, just mere liking and hanging out) with a boy before and literally when dad found out I was beaten up very hard and also was not allowed to leave for whole 3 months of holiday.
While my brother had like 3 relationships and they don’t say a thing!!!
Hypocrites hypocrites hypocrites
U are forced to wear the scarf? Only?
I’m forced to dress like an old hag and I’m 20. Trousers are a no no... and literally it is suffocating. Maybe I don’t hate scarf, I find it necessary but why all that fucked up wide skirts and abaya? Why?
Leave the house? I wish, I really do
It ain’t gonna happen unless they force u to marry someone whom they chose
It is literally living hell, but that isn’t Islam tbh, it is just the mentality of all Muslim parents that made them love our ignorance of the religion and make them do the fuck they want in the name of religion
What country do u Belong to?
same here, when dad found out my brother was in a relationship the asshole didn’t say anything but he brutally beat up my sis for merely talking to a guy :) so yeah all i can say is that they’re lowkey mentally ill
Glad i could make you feel lighter somehow! Everyone more or less has been in your situation! Or still in that situation! And I forgot to mention anything about the fact that your father practically forces you to wear a scarf! Bruh....I try to educate my not so modern parents about today's way of life (weird phrasing I Kno...) And so far it ok.
My mom gets the whole thing about wanting to stay single and get divorce rather than stay in a toxic relationship. But dad ...he has issues...which is giving me a headache. But whatt I want to say is try to talk with your father one on one and if hes just gets mad and starts to act worse. Baby it's a sign from God. Get the FUQ out! But if you know your father well enough and know he will react badly don't do it. It will do you more harm than good, so instead, plan your moving out.
Imagine life without him and only with the people you want! New and old! Best wishes love!
lmao ok i love ranting here because i don’t know anyone here which is good but anyway, i’m having such a hard time because of my studies and my insecurities. i hate myself and it’s unbearable but just when i thought that was all, dad always makes it harder. he’s a sexist, religious and homophobic obviously. but other than that, since i’m a “female” he makes me feel like absolute shit and doesn’t let me do ANYTHING. i was literally going to sleep at my cousin’s house, because that’s the only place i have fun in and forget about the shit i go through he goes like “a girl shouldn’t sleep outside her house! and your cousin is basically a teenage boy now, haram!” and just like that he puts too many limits just because i’m a girl. he even made me wear the scarf against my will. i hate this i can’t wait until i’m older, i just want to walk away from this stupid house.