what i posted is not constructive and very offensive so im actually hoping to read a constructive replies that may help me
I think you’re very brave for posting this without going anonymous; and I think you’re on the right path for just being aware of it.
I tend to do the same, but I’ll say there’s prejudice in “no” prejudice. (You make the judgement to not make a judgment.)
What I’m trying to say is... Just live girl/boy!! It’s okay
Oh I feel the same too. It probably has to do with how I'm asexual so I don't really relate to highly sexually active people. I think there's really nothing wrong with having a preference as long as it isn't something illegal. If you consume something illegal it means you're promoting it, because fiction reflects reality no matter how much you deny it. But then again whether or not something is legal/should be consumed is really grey e.g. varying degrees of dub-con.
Which is why there really is no universal rule to it. I wouldn't go verbally harass someone for consuming these things, but I would be in favour of banning "morally wrong" fiction altogether.
quite humilitating but i just realized that as a bl reader, i tendency to have prejudice against characters who sleep around but there's quite a lot of time, too, that it's ok for me... so i noticed that im ok with it if the character is kind more brusqe or “manly” looking but it's not ok if the character doesn't look that way... but ofc there's also sometimes that im not ok with any especially if there's cheating OR THAT IM OK WITH EITHER. Like more than anything else, it's ok or not ok depending on the character's personality or characterization?
just to be clear tho, i dont have problem with real people on what they do, have sex as much as they want or not, its not my business. it's just that when you read something for fun ofc you'll have tendencies of liking or not liking something. So i hope other reader's who will read this will keep their mouth zipped instead of blabbering that im slut-shaming.
I hope you, guys, also understand that sure it can be fine, even with me, as long as it doesn't concern me, but ofc, if it's directly involved to you, in a sense that you read it, u're invested on it, ofc it'll affect you.
like u know, there should be respect to everyone's belief, if they dont like something, dont diss them and accept the fact that there are different perception on this topic but ofc have to be reminded too (myself and people like me) that theres a limit to what we say and how we act.
tbh, even with this kind of thinking, separating real and fiction, i think that it's still wrong of me to have such stance and im still in the process of removing this kind of thought even towards fiction....
well im blabberng but bottomline is, there are different opinions and belief on some topics and sometimes its not just a matter of being right or wrong because we all have rights to have our preferences as long as we're not hurng someone or something and i believe we all know where to see that line... so people who diss at people when they have different opinion ex. with an OP, i really really hope that we can tone down just a little bit.