GOOD BL mangas

do you know this oneß
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/umi_to_futari_no_enbun_noudo/

not sure what you're definition of popular is but i have an advice.

just go to the genre pages and arrange it by any of the sorting except "update", 'cause that refreshes every few minutes, and most of the time you'll see some good stuff. alot of good and underrated stuff are usually one-shots, so also try that.

well-known/read stories such as bj alex, love is an illusion, love or hate etc etc

Maybe try this one
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/junketsu_drop/

Define "annoying uke". Do you hate tsunderes? Whiny ones? Innocent ones? Slutty types? Rude? Timid?

Flaver YOU WILL LOVE IT

those who whine a lot, shy away most of the time, playing super hard to get

mature uke looking into gay marriage
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kekkon_suru_kamoshirenai_otoko/

patient+independent uke, been friends with seme for 3 years and listened to his troubles
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/soredemo_yasashii_koi_o_suru/

eager+physically strong uke who wants to be a slave+reluctant dom seme who doesn't wanna be a master lol it's a romcom with no actual bdsm
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/goshujinsama_to_wa_iwasemasen/

seemingly a player but is actually a closet gay uke who's cheerful and sweet
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/neon_sign_amber/

older uke than seems like a seme, ex-cop with ptsd
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/on_doorstep/

established couple, uke shamelessly knows what he wants in bed, loyal
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/romantic_pornography/

quiet type but isn't the timid kind, works in gay porn industry
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/walk_on_water/

responsible uke who takes care of the seme for work reasons lol
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mother_s_spirit/

older uke who teases seme, established couple
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/boku_no_omawarisan/

aggresive uke who subtly uses his job to get close to seme
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/goriyou_wa_keikakutekini/

uke sex worker, friends with seme, surprisingly wholesome
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kabeana_money_hole/

relationship feels very victor/yuri from YOI, nice guy uke
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fruit_gateau_au_chocolat/

here's the kicker, the whining one+playing hard to get is the SEME not the uke
later he becomes extremely devoted and proud of uke and thinks the uke is cute
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ore_no_kirai_na_senpai/

for the most part, their relationship is incredibly wholesome and nice to each other
they look like kids but they're actually high schoolers, uke is a senior (can't explain personality... he's sweet, patient, and a bit teasing to the seme?)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/iki_o_tomete_ugokanai_de/

omegaverse:

brazen uke omega
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/katsubou_animajemera/

established couple, independent, reasonable uke alpha
https://myreadingmanga.info/natsushita-fuyu-okusama-wa-alpha-eng/

waifu uke omega, side couple features ignorant cheerful uke beta
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tadaima_okaeri/

SUPER PATIENT uke omega lol
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sayonara_alpha/

incredibly talented and rich seme-like alpha but is actually the uke
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/boku_no_high_spec_kareshi_sama/

innocent type of uke omega to pair with the tall ass seme beta
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/youchina_koi_o_dou_shiyou/

hardworking uke omega that teases back and forth with seme alpha
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kasegimasen_kara/

If you're into furries and the omegaverse, i ain't judgin':

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kinai_kemonohito_omegaverse/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/pendulum_kemonohito_omegaverse/
same universe, more family type of manga than romance>>
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/petit_mignon/uu/petit_mignon-chapter-1

I picked the ones that were based on the ukes you probably won't think of as annoying based on your description "those who whine a lot, shy away most of the time, playing super hard to get"! and i'm fairly sure none of them do that

hey thanks a lot! ill be going through them this wee ^^