I am bi but I can actually understand why they are scared of dating someone bi.. it's the constant fear that they will find someone else from the opposite sex just so they can live a "normal" life, have a child and avoid the prejudice. I'm sick of hearing how my gay male friends get cheated on or find out the had a girlfriend since the beginning. BUT WE ARE NOT ALL THAT WAY. If that person cheats on you or whatever is because they didn't love you from the start and that's that. I'm a bi girl who has a tendency to like boys but I dated a girl for about two years (we broke up recently bc of matters that have nothing to do with sexual orientation) and I could totally sense she was concious of it. Once she even told me to go look for a guy when we were fighting. It hurt like a B*TCH. All in all, I don't think it's biphobia bc they don't hate bis, they are just scared. It's just a matter of time till they realise it's not always like that Thanks for coming to my TED talk
I am bi but I can actually understand why they are scared of dating someone bi.. it's the constant fear that they will find someone else from the opposite sex just so they can live a "normal" life, have a child and avoid the prejudice. I'm sick of hearing how my gay male friends get cheated on or find out the had a girlfriend since the beginning. BUT WE ARE NOT ALL THAT WAY. If that person cheats on you or whatever is because they didn't love you from the start and that's that.
I'm a bi girl who has a tendency to like boys but I dated a girl for about two years (we broke up recently bc of matters that have nothing to do with sexual orientation) and I could totally sense she was concious of it. Once she even told me to go look for a guy when we were fighting. It hurt like a B*TCH.
All in all, I don't think it's biphobia bc they don't hate bis, they are just scared. It's just a matter of time till they realise it's not always like that
Thanks for coming to my TED talk