All of this could have been avoided if the author wrote uke having casual flings instead of relationship. I don't blame the uke for looking for sexual compatibility, it is important. But then you be honest to your partner(s) about seeing multiple people so the partner(s) can opt out if they are not up for it. This way the uke is just a cheater, boyfriend seme looks dumb af and that first crush seme is obnoxious. And I am not well versed in those type of relationships, but even usual kinks need some sort of consent and prior agreement. You can't just dump that on people and let them deal. Also. Aftercare, asshole!
All of this could have been avoided if the author wrote uke having casual flings instead of relationship. I don't blame the uke for looking for sexual compatibility, it is important. But then you be honest to your partner(s) about seeing multiple people so the partner(s) can opt out if they are not up for it. This way the uke is just a cheater, boyfriend seme looks dumb af and that first crush seme is obnoxious.
And I am not well versed in those type of relationships, but even usual kinks need some sort of consent and prior agreement. You can't just dump that on people and let them deal. Also. Aftercare, asshole!