I had the same problem with my ex. I stupidly said something and they took it the wrong way and we ended up breaking up. I couldn't tell them anything for years because I didn't have the confidence in myself to think that they didn't want to break up, I just thought that they didn't want to be with me so I thought it was better like that. A few years later, when I came clean with them, they told me the same about it, that they didn't felt confident enough to ask me about it. So I feel the confusion and the pain, and it's so overwhelming! Those two really need to learn how to speak with each other （￣へ￣）
I had the same problem with my ex. I stupidly said something and they took it the wrong way and we ended up breaking up.
I couldn't tell them anything for years because I didn't have the confidence in myself to think that they didn't want to break up, I just thought that they didn't want to be with me so I thought it was better like that.
A few years later, when I came clean with them, they told me the same about it, that they didn't felt confident enough to ask me about it.
So I feel the confusion and the pain, and it's so overwhelming!
Those two really need to learn how to speak with each other （￣へ￣）