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Oh boy, two mentally battered people (I assume also with Wooyeon that it was not "just" a ...

Smoke Mirrors November 8, 2019 5:02 am

Oh boy, two mentally battered people (I assume also with Wooyeon that it was not "just" a pure desperate act or some call for help.) to take care of each other!? That's a damn bumpy road with a hella lot of huge potholes and side ditches. It's already very hard for healthy people to bear the "whims" and "moods" of a mentally disturbed person and to deal with them accordingly. And then two of the same kind under one roof, who should also deal and/or support each other!? Tough! Extremely so. I'm not saying it's impossible (Sometimes and in certain cases this can also be kind of beneficial.), but I'm absolutely convinced that there should definitely be a good therapist on board, as well as general medical care. And if present family and/or good friends (well-briefed and in a way well instructed by qualified personnel) who look after you every now and then. Especially when the individual phases overlap. Then they can trigger each other violently and thus trigger real "wars". And then both feel guilty in the end and are even more depressed and/or selfhating. It’s a fucking vicious circle ...

In this context, the behaviour of the two, which is logically not comprehensible to the healthy mind, is also explained in a certain way. a) The way in which Wooyeon deals with Junwoo and vice versa, like b) Junwoo e.g. haven't noticed Wooyeon's scars so far isn't too far fetched. Extreme irrationality and misjudgements, numbness and the lack of empathy as well as not to care too much about one's environment are just some of the lovely traits of depressive disorders. Extreme sarcasm as well, by the way. ;-)

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