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Weird question, but for the married folks. Have you ever thought you might never be able t...

Right in the kokoro December 28, 2019 11:01 am

Weird question, but for the married folks. Have you ever thought you might never be able to have kids? Ive been trying for a few months, about 3 months actually with my husband and no luck so far. Im too scared to get checked. Ive always had my period and all that crap so maybe im over thinking.....

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    Unoriginal Artist December 28, 2019 7:57 am

    idk about getting pregnant but it took my parents 6 years to have me so, one of u 2 might just have very low fertility, it might be best to have both of u get checked for it if it still doesnt happen in a few months, my parents had low fertility so maybe you two do to?

    monnom December 28, 2019 9:04 am

    I don’t know if you were on the pill, but it can take up to a year to conceive after stopping the pill. And doctors usually don’t consider it a fertility problem before 18 months without success. So I wouldn’t stress about it too much if it’s only been 3 months! The important thing is not to stress about it. Often, doctors “prescribe” a vacation to couples who are trying to conceive and are having no luck. When they go on vacation, the stress disappears and 95% of the time, the baby is conceived during that same vacation! So, stay zen about it and I wish you good luck and have fun! (⌒▽⌒)

    shortshort December 28, 2019 10:06 am

    3 month isn't that long. It comes down to 3 trys. I suppose you know how to calculate the right fertile time (taking temperature and so on). Not stressing out is really good advice! But if it doesn't work in a year you should see a doctor. And don't worry about seeing a doctor. There can be problems in conceiving which can be fixed quite easily. (I don't know your age, but if you are under 30 you really have nothing to worry about. A predictor for fertility is also the fertility of other female relatives on your mothers side. If your aunts and sisters have many children, the chances are quite high that you will too)

    Right in the kokoro December 28, 2019 10:54 am
    idk about getting pregnant but it took my parents 6 years to have me so, one of u 2 might just have very low fertility, it might be best to have both of u get checked for it if it still doesnt happen in a few m... Unoriginal Artist

    6 years is a long time. We'll prob try for a year and if no success we'll get checked. Thanks@ :)

    Right in the kokoro December 28, 2019 10:55 am
    I don’t know if you were on the pill, but it can take up to a year to conceive after stopping the pill. And doctors usually don’t consider it a fertility problem before 18 months without success. So I would... monnom

    Hmm i was never on burth control so i should be clear on that. I honestly have a weird sleep schedule and I feel that probably affects me too. We are pretty active in that department so i guess we'll keep trying or go on vacation lol

    Right in the kokoro December 28, 2019 10:57 am
    3 month isn't that long. It comes down to 3 trys. I suppose you know how to calculate the right fertile time (taking temperature and so on). Not stressing out is really good advice! But if it doesn't work in a ... shortshort

    I see, i recently turned 26. My husband and I are the same age, most of my relatives all habe a big family. I myself come from a family of o siblings so I hope its true.

    Right in the kokoro December 28, 2019 11:03 am

    9 siblings lol