Well, yeah I don't think there's anything wrong with enjoying anything questionable IRL so long as it stays as fiction. A lot of people have fantasies that they know are bad in real life (ex rape fantasies, etc) but that doesn't mean they are ok with actual rape. What I find weird are the people who shame other people for liking a certain trope or genre of fiction. Like, chill, it's not real.

So let's say we all have a 'fantasy bubble' where we get refugee, reading/watching all kind of stories even if they are a bad thing in real life, like incest, pedophilia, average age, etc... I don't mind the kind of romance that the story shows, if I like the story and the characters, I'm fine with anything, but, back to reality I would judge, I would say that's disgusting.