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Jeanette’s Ignorance has reached an all time high for me

HueHueHue February 5, 2020 10:12 pm

As hard as it might be to belive, children are quite sensitive- especially in their development stages. As a growing teen Jeanette should be becoming more aware of the emotions and feelings of those around her. Ejikiel (I think that's his name?) is very aware and sensitive towards every one's feelings around him, despite being two years older. They lived in the same roof and were brought up similarly enough that if she wanted to Jeanette could've learnt something form him but instead she allowed herself to be coddled until she struggled to be her own person. As nice as she is Jeanette has no other reedeming quality other than her kindness. She's oblivious, far too trusting, selfish, unable to think for herself and weak willed- at this point she's more of a deadweight than anything. Jeanette's nativity is the product of her own close mindedness. She is aware of the reason for her isolation, and believe it or not is quite okay with it. She's been conditioned to believe that its for her own good so she can end up with her father. As long as any action done gets her close to her dad she is willing to endure. That isn't a child that's been mistreated but instead a child who has been filled with unchecked ambition. She's so wrapped up in the fantasy of reuniting with her dad that she's thrown all logic away. If her father loved her, why did he never search for her? Why did she have to hide who she was up till now? How come her mother ran away form him? A little bit of thought would've given her the thought/idea that her 'father' didn't care and still doesn't care for her, it would've allowed her to question things and those around her- maybe even spur her to investigate. If my long lost father called me up for tea yet always fell asleep before we uttered a single word then that's not a win for me. I'd feel awkward and like I've been dusted aside. The answers that I'm looking for as well as the questions I want to ask are being pushed aside. She also has a brotherly figure who showers her with love and a caretaker that provides for her and cares for her even without her best intentions in life. Jeanette may have grown up without her parents and a shitty 'father' figure but she certainly wasn't lacking in love- chasing after a father who seemingly abandoned her when there are others willing to love her just as much casts her in a negative light for me. Also, Jeanette is NOT a child, maybe by law, but not in terms of mentality, emotions and physical body. She has passed the point where she can now tell right from wrong, the point where she can tell when someone is in pain or full of joy without them having to say so verbally. Her extremely low EQ is so annoying because it's the only excuse she can come up with for her ignorant and selfish behaviour. I don’t need to be a genius to be able to tell when my friend is feeling uncomfortable- in fact most children can tell. You can say that Jeanette might be a special case but there’s a level of oblivious you can be before you just come off as willingly ignorant. The whole premise for me hate towards Jeanette is due to her inconsiderate nature towards Athy’s feelings. Its the fact that she’s creating a paradox on herself. She sees Athy as her sister and her family and yet not once has she asked to see how she’s fairing, instead she’s happy to have her fathers love and attention while just having her ‘sister’ there is good enough to fulfil her image of a happy family. You can’t argue that at 14 you aren’t able to tell when someone is upset or in emotional pain? It’s not like Athy is even trying to hide her feelings. We can't sympathise with her bacuse in our eyes she's being extremely greedy and naive, she willing turns her head the other way when Athy feels down when her dad is brought up and pls let's be real. No true friend would purposely talk about the person hurting you as he spoils another- no matter how low ur EQ is, that's just not ok. Jeanette is disliked because she's shown characteristics of a person who prefers to live in her own perfect bubble instead of facing reality.

Responses
    Kimbab kidding February 5, 2020 11:02 pm

    Omg this is beautiful =').
    Say it louder to the people who thinks She doesnt deserve the hate *wipe tears

    Yeyu February 6, 2020 12:32 am

    Yaaaass!!! I couldn't really express why do I don't like Jenette properly and you've worded how I felt exactly

    YourWitcher February 6, 2020 2:41 am

    This is perfect, thank you!

    Kat February 6, 2020 2:10 pm

    Yes this is the exact explanation

    Hersheys February 6, 2020 2:52 pm

    I feel the same as well. I always thought it was weird for her not to question anything and just accept that she's not allowed to meet her father yadda yadda. And in these recent chapters, she is selfish and seem to only care about her own feelings when it is clearly athy the one who is very down.
    I don't want Lucas to be the Knight in shining armour though, it'd be nice for Athy to regain her strength on her own. However, it'd also be nice for Lucas to come back so that Athy at least can be stronger in terms of her mental health. I keep having a bad feeling about Claus and Jeanette's relationship. Sure, he's a king and prob smart enough to rule a kingdom but when it comes to relationships, he is dumb as hell. To think that he is able to avoid his headaches (due to his daughter of course) by meeting Jeanette and think that it is a good thing, SIGHS. I get that his childhood isn't the best and his love life is also quite saddening but wth man. If you're going to abandon Athy completely, then I feel like Athy might not be able to take it. She might just leave if Jeanette takes her place so that her father and Jeanette could be happy. And no ejikel, using my eyes that can forsee any story's future, you will not end up with Athy, sorry not sorry. She's just not feeling it. I can feel that Jeanette would soon do something that will hurt Athy incredibly and its making me super uneasy. More chapters please!

    YourWitcher February 6, 2020 4:56 pm

    He does try to think about it and gives up completely after a couple of seconds because " I dont wanna think about anything ". His headaches are so bad that he literally cant think straight and that is his biggest weakness right now. I view him as a very calculated and cold man, and that only changes when he starts caring deeply about a person ( when he almost got himself killed to save athy) or when he is in so much pain that he just cant take it anymore. He is being tortured and i feel sorry for him. The headaches seem to me like his magic trying to fight back the memory loss and not losing but not failing either.
    He is at war with himself without him ever realizing it and i feel his pain.

    HueHueHue February 6, 2020 5:44 pm
    He does try to think about it and gives up completely after a couple of seconds because " I dont wanna think about anything ". His headaches are so bad that he literally cant think straight and that is his bigg... YourWitcher

    I agree with you. Having amnesia is awful, it must be even worse when everyone around you keeps telling you things you don’t seem to remember. I don’t blame Clause for using Jeanette as a pain killer and I don’t think he deserves to be portrayed as intentionally hurting Athy, people need to understand how painful it is for him right now.

    YourWitcher February 6, 2020 6:45 pm
    I agree with you. Having amnesia is awful, it must be even worse when everyone around you keeps telling you things you don’t seem to remember. I don’t blame Clause for using Jeanette as a pain killer and I ... HueHueHue

    I just hope Lucas comes back soon cause he was away for far too long.

    Kat February 6, 2020 8:55 pm
    I just hope Lucas comes back soon cause he was away for far too long. YourWitcher

    IKR... you know that one chapter where Athy was thinking of where Lucus was and wishing he was there with her Lucus was right outside the window to her room i assume? is he perhaps looking for Athy coz he knows that she's not at the palace??

    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/suddenly_became_a_princess_one_day/nto/mpn_chapter-2162520/pg-16/

    or am I just confusing myself???

    YourWitcher February 6, 2020 9:07 pm
    IKR... you know that one chapter where Athy was thinking of where Lucus was and wishing he was there with her Lucus was right outside the window to her room i assume? is he perhaps looking for Athy coz he knows... Kat

    Im not really sure. I think he was on his way back. I mean, he is the great magician, i doubt Athy can hide from him. And he does look older than he should so that got me confused as well. I dont really remember if he was his younger self or his older self when he first started the journey tho.

    looololol February 7, 2020 12:23 am

    you put it into words. 14 is old enough to be in high school, y’all, and certainly old enough to read that getting close to ur father who you don’t know very well in place of ur sister, who that same exact father is hunting down and who has been nothing but very kind to you for a long time, is a very shitty thing to do

    Yuichiin February 9, 2020 11:00 pm

    Thank you! I want those who says Jeannette doesn't deserve the hate to read this. So they can atleast understand why other fans and readers doesn't like her character.

    HueHueHue February 10, 2020 1:35 pm

    its even more annoying now with the newest chapter. This proves that Jeanette is aware of how deep Athy and Claude's disconnection is and yet claims to be trying to mediate when all she does is attempt to curry favour with Claude. Claude hasn't harmed anyone that asked about Athy after his memory loss, yet she hasn't made a single attempt to ask how he feels about Athy. The fact that she's upset she isn't being shown enough attention by both only highlights her selfishness as well as show her general unsatisfactory nature. When she said she felt detached from Ejikiel and his father and that she wanted to find her own family, I couldn't help but be so pissed. If your 'father' didn't love you when you were born and never made an effort to find you, what makes you think it'll change now, he's even been openly hostile to you as well. For me that's enough signs to inform me that I'm not wanted or welcomed. it's just sad how desperate and in denial she's in.

    YourWitcher February 10, 2020 6:29 pm

    I just want Lucas to appear because i cant stand this shit anymore. Jeanette is getting more and more annoying. I was so pissed of after reading this chapter. How in hell did Claude find her lovely in the original story? He makes her his successor but she isnt fit to rule a kingdom. I wonder how did she charmed him? Athy was from a young age recognised as a little genius and now can even use magic, but Jeannette? What was so good about her that he wanted to make her his next heir? Because of her cute smile? Oh, if she can look at me with love, then i will discard my people and the throne and just give it to her. WASNT HE SUPPOSED TO BE THE GREAT EMPEROR that brought prosperity or something over the land. My god, sorry for the rambling but i just feel so angry.

    HueHueHue February 10, 2020 7:02 pm
    I just want Lucas to appear because i cant stand this shit anymore. Jeanette is getting more and more annoying. I was so pissed of after reading this chapter. How in hell did Claude find her lovely in the origi... YourWitcher

    I get you but honestly, Ejikiel would’ve taken up the mantle as Jeanette's husband, while she sat there and looked pretty. As for Claude’s bending over backwards for her, I’m just going to blame it on all the manipulation Jeanette aunt and Ejikiel’s father did in the background.

    YourWitcher February 10, 2020 9:55 pm
    I get you but honestly, Ejikiel would’ve taken up the mantle as Jeanette's husband, while she sat there and looked pretty. As for Claude’s bending over backwards for her, I’m just going to blame it on all... HueHueHue

    True. Its funny how even Ejikiel himself is a little tired of her bullshit at this point. I guess the answer was ' just get yourself an intelligent husband'.

    Kat February 11, 2020 9:17 pm

    i'm glad I'm not the only one that was annoyed after reading the new chapter...I didn't know how to express myself because I sort of pity her but at the same time she's getting on my nerves...idk how I feel about jeanette anymore but i guess i never really liked her character in the first place ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍At this point I just see her as trouble coz you never know what she might do and it will change the future *face palm* i'm feeling so anxious coz she's a bomb and you never know when it's gonna explode.

    LessThanACoin June 10, 2020 8:08 am

    I agree with ln a lot of the points you have brought up but regarding with how Ejikiel ( forgot his name) only being two years older have much more maturity than Jennette despite being brought up similarly. I wanna clarify on that point that we can't really compare him with Jennette as in those earlier chapters it was shown that despite his age he is very intelligent and emotionally mature as well and even seem to be on that same level as athy, who have her past life and this life so to sum up athy mental age is around 34 if we assume that she lived till 20 in her past life. Both of them seem to be of similar maturity(Mr.White's Son and Athy ). Also it's quite obvious that White's Son will be more mature, I mean look at the way he was brought up, his father talks to him like an adult and treat him like an adult, unlike Jennette who always almost have to stay home and only be able to go out with Mr white or his son to keep a close watch on her, so her identity will not be revealed. She doesn't have the chance to interact with others to even develop her social skills and also the whites treat her like a child. Honestly, I won't be surprised if the white intentionally do this, so that she will not have really have the intellect to make a reasonable question or answer for herself and her situation. Yeah, I agree with you, kids that age tend to be more emotionally sensitive and more understanding but do you mean normal kids or somewhat kids who aren't that much of in a caged up world like hers? Who grew up in a normal environment and get to interact with other human beings other than being stuck in the mansion for almost your whole life? There is clearly a lot of details you over went when you made that statement. I mean, of course, 100℅ sure if she grew up in a normal environment and still behaving like a child and being super oblivious to everything around her, then yes I will too wholeheartedly dislike her and her character. Another point based on your statement about her having someone who cares for her and caregivers etc. it was shown in the previous chapters that she never really felt that she was apart of the white's family as she young she could already feel the line between Mr white and his son and her. From this, she came to the conclusion that she will only truly beloved if she is with her real family.I mean I get that she wasn't that deprived of love but in her position what difference does that so call affection that can be compared to a stranger's kindness. It was hinted quite a lot that the love she gets doesn't really feel that close in a sense like a nice and kind aunt's love vs your mum's love.So it's not really wrong for her to seek out the closeness and comfort that only close and real family can give.You might argue that not only does it have to be real family who is blood related to shower you with the same love, but in her case no. Obviously, she will still feel happy that she gets to spend time with Claude although he is barely paying attention to her. She thinks that sooner or later she will be accepted once Claude knows that she is his 'real' daughter he will accept her. Also about her being inconsiderate towards athy's feeling, I mean how can she understand? Almost all the time even when Jennette asked her about her emotions, Athy response always assures Jennette. I mean unlike us who can see her real emotions and thoughts, she can't. Athy is so good at disguising her real emotions that even most find it hard to think the around on her response to her actual feeling. I feel that the fault doesn't only lie on her for being somewhat delusional, I mean almost everyone around her are feeding her delusions by telling lies that don't match their feelings or the real situation. Like what do you mean by it's not like athy hides her feeling?? When? almost all the time she does that to almost everyone, the only time she did was when Jennette asked her how will athy feel if she is her real sister. After seeing her reaction, finally, Jennette starts to evaluate her actions and words but then the very next day athy once again feed her fantasy by reassuring her. I mean it's like think it this way there is person A and B, person A always like to joke around while person B feels hurt by person A's joke but always laugh at person A jokes. I mean like seriously, in what way can she understand what she is doing is wrong? You can't just keep making the person A the bad one when the other person doesn't even speak up on what B is doing wrong.Its not like jennette can magically understand what everyone really meant.That's just my opinion on your statement and I do agree with the most part but I feel that there should still be another side to allow people to look at a better and balanced view. Also a disclaimer no need to get offended or angry by my opinion, I am just stating what I personally think. Do give me a reply if anyone if you disagree on my part, I would like to hear it then that's it for my part (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ