I know that the seme/uke, top/bottom fights are nothing serious and mostly a joke matter but I have actually seen on YT a video where gay couple was asked who tops and who bottoms and the more "femine" guy said he mostly tops and people made fun of him, said he is lying, no way in hell, that he is neko (yeah fans used words like Neko, even UKE) etc. I was so appalled. Don't ever do that.
I know that the seme/uke, top/bottom fights are nothing serious and mostly a joke matter but I have actually seen on YT a video where gay couple was asked who tops and who bottoms and the more "femine" guy said he mostly tops and people made fun of him, said he is lying, no way in hell, that he is neko (yeah fans used words like Neko, even UKE) etc. I was so appalled. Don't ever do that.