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http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/royal_servant/?av=1
you probably know this one already, but if not: its reeeaaallllyyyy good.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/playboy_amour/
the seme isn't intentionally mean in this one, but since he's so oblivious to the feelings of the uke and the workload he's doing he still ends up hurting him.
Hina Wa Mitsuiro no Koi ni Torawareru: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hina_wa_mitsuiro_no_koi_ni_torawareru/
Any yaoi recommendations where the seme is super mean and ungrateful to the uke and the uke just takes it because he loves him or something.