You know it's dangerous to do this beacause if one day you really don't want it you will say no and if the boy is used to heard it form you he can just continue saying something like " oh it's juste like everytime she/he said no but she/he want it" CONSENT is really important
PS: You don't have to be shy about something like wanted to be fuck, it's not a shame or something to be embarrased... It's something pleasurable you have the right to say "YES FUCK ME!!" (dude I do it and actually no one die) and the boys won't think "oh she is a whore" (or if they do they're dickhead and they don't deserve to sleep with you)
Well of course it is something to consider. Consent should be the go to, every time, even in "hard to get" role play... because if we don't and you have a partner tha don't read well body language or don't want to, it creates a dangerous situation.
How many time did I clearly stated no, and the guy in front of me just took it as a challenge. I even had one told me "your no wasn't convincing enough", after I told him five times I wasn't into him and just wanted to talk video game. I even pushed him back twice before he forced a kiss on me.
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I was groomed all my childhood to obey and please male partner (for real and it was particularly traumatic) and everyday I fight against that conditionnent, which is extremely hard when the person in front of me think "no" are not to be taken seriously from a woman. And I am asexual, so it make it worse, because I am not that much into the act in the first place, even if you don't take in consideration the abuse part... Still, I have this defense mechanism to actually do it to be left in peace, because resisting triggers some of my PTSD, but complying is as bad psychologically for me. Yet, with time I learn to not fear repercussion by saying when I don't want it, though it does take all my energy.
And yet... It didn't prevent one of my ex-boyfriend to wait I was asleep to do his business on our first night together, even though he promise me he would do anything... His excuse? He "couldn't resist and hold back" and that it was "normal and natural to desire the person you love"....
Though I do understand when you conditioned in a way it is extremely hard to express your desire out loud, and fiction is just fiction. I just wish there was more reading and entertainment promoting an actual healthy way of communicating your sexual desire. Because to much societies in general, teach us that it is ok to ignore the "no" as long as you get satisfaction in the end. And yaoi are so much into the "I can't hold back" mentality, it ruins a bit the pleasure. (/TДT)/
yes, but I was told that nothing could be done. Basically, it was too much in a gray zone for any one to clear count it as an assault. Because we were dating and by the time I got out of my denial about what happen, it was to late to get any proof. Even when he stalked me after I broke up, I couldn't get the law to protect. It was 12 years ago, so back then law representative were still less incline to believe victims than now. Especially when the person work in public service and has friend there.
Thats very sad im sorry you ever had to go through that.... but it never crosses my mind i could be raped or inappropriately touched.. i guess cause im a man it doesnt even seem plausible to me... like im small but im not smol... its sad that that is what woman have to constantly think about and be aware of....
But do you physically try to push them off and pry their fingers away from you as you shyly say no? Because that's what this uke is doing. He's not going "no, I don't want that. I'm a good boy~ " *chuckles as he's pushed down* "Oh stop! This is so naughty! Stop!" *giggles as he's touched*. "Oh stop! That feels too good~" *grins as clothes removed and even helps* See that kind of no is not a no. That is someone saying no, but very clearly delighted with what's happening.
But:
"Stop! Please stop!" *fights and tries to shove away seme* "Don't do it!" *kicks and struggles as pinned down* "I said no!" *sobs as forced down and stripped*
Seme, "But your body wants it".
Thank kinda no is NO. Hell NO
Like i said i agree... but thats not actually what’s happening here though... his arm is down n hes laying there... he clearly can fight him since he just elbowed him earlier... i think he wants to give in to the sensation but doesnt want to because of some unknown trauma about being bottom... what you wrote is much more dramatic n is clearly rape

I don’t understand why every time an uke say « no » the seme is like « but you like it..! » WHY? Dude he said no... just STOP!!!