Disgusting

THIS

Amen to this

Someone disliked? either that was an accident or theyre into unhealthy relationships. if its the latter then perhaps u need to go into therapy too

Dude, i was screaming, i thought that maybe he will tell Heeno that he was a trash can in the past. The relationship can be wholesome if Heeno just could get to know who and how was Aerak in the past.
I want a backstory of red hair, i'm curious about him

I'm not sure if you've been in a relationship before, but very few of them are healthy at all and almost none start off healthy. I disliked this comment because there is no reason to hate a side couple for being unhealthy when we dont see them enough to judge. Everyone brings their own baggage to the relationship, and obviously Aerak isnt ready to talk about his. We also dont know much about Heeno, so I'm not willing to judge him for what he said. At that age, lots of popular people feel the need to go with the flow in order to stay on top, so maybe that's what happened. I have been in therapy for a while, and I have a lot of things I'm not willing to talk to my boyfriend about yet. It's not okay to judge based on that.

Saying that most relationships start off unhealthy is a fairly pessimistic mind set don't you think? There are plenty of issues people face before meeting one another and it's perfectly fine for individuals in a relationship to want to keep their personal insecurities or issues from the other; nothing wrong with people wanting privacy. The issue that I have with this story is the execution of their relationship. Its a goddamn story, I am aware, and anyone who read BL can pretty much agree a shocking amount of stories with BL have elements of homophobia, rape, or stereotypical roles of same-sex couples.

The route this author chose to take was... disturbing to say the least because while I commend him/her/them for trying to "discuss" about types of relationships I have never been one for the bully to lover trope. Not unless theres about 60 chapters on one couple so they can be fleshed out anyways. If heeno bullied him on the grounds of perhaps being gay (not exactly wonderful) at least you can make the (wrong) argument that its a display of self-hatred or insecurity about being homo, which isn't an excuse, but with enough chapters the author can flesh the story with some kind of redemption arc. That isn't the case though. They are a side couple whose got maybe a dozen chapters to portray what is a bully/bullied relationship based off of physical appearances. Heeno fat shamed him and only developed attraction once aerak lost weight. Then there was that grotesque convo where Heeno's joking about how he'll make Aerak fat so he can stop focusing on archery. Yea idk what moron thought that was a great dialogue to utilize.

Honestly kang/dunno was a w/e bully to lover trope but this second pairing was. a. f*king. joke.

On the age premise thing lets not allow ourselves to think its ok, at any age, for a child to comment on another kid's appearance without learning and understanding via some kind of repercussion. Peer pressure happens. Schools is hard. But that shouldn't be something we use an excuse to enable or permiss bullying.

Welp perhaps im too fragile and picky ^^ but anyways all in all, do I recommend this story? If you’re looking for a series with great art then absolutely. Its also got plenty of drama but the portrayal of a toxic relationship was a turn off to me.

No hate on all of you here. Just love. But just keeping everyone a reality check.

I totally understand people's difference in circumstances I get that. Just know that this all fictional. We shouldn't get too personal. People tend to get personal because they see themselves in the character's shoes or see similarities in their lives. There is nothing wrong with that. We are all entitled to whatever we want to say. But each person will always have that person who will disagree with what they think as right. That's not wrong here. We just gotta respect each other.

(Also, since i am entitled to mine. Lol. Im just gonna say. What the flipping freak is going on! Toxic relationship is a no-no in my vocabulary. If you know you're mental health is being abused because of this madness. Get out! It's like he's the last guy on Earth. It's not like you can't live without him?! Boy, you lasted 10 years of middle school with just looking at him. You can last 5 months convincing yourself to leave that shit hole. ;) )

I honestly do agree with you, I'm just pointing out that there tends to be more than what meets the eye. We only see Aerak's view from middle school. I'm not saying what Heeno did in middle school was okay, but I am saying that we dont see much of the past from his point of view, likely because he doesnt remember Aerak.

I'm also not saying all relationships are inherently unhealthy, I'm just saying that most have unhealthy aspects. That just means that work needs to be done in certain areas. Also, I've been in way too many completely unhealthy ones to not be biased toward pessimism on this though.

Honestly, thank you for this reply, it makes me happy to see people so passionate about mental health. I also really enjoy playing devils advocate, so I'm happy I got to have this discussion with you! I might seek you out on other stories to hear your opinions about them.

that's just literally how I felt reading those chapters Aerak might love Heeno but he shouldn't be blind ...The red hair guy stayed all the time beside him ....my heart ached how can Heeno got Aerak he don't deserve him even if he feels sorry cuz once aerak becomes fat or anything else( just pretending) then he will leave him again without a second thought ..this implies love depends upon looks which I never understand .