I didn't used to care about him and thought he was annoying. I was with Pan because I was closer to his age than Red Head, and understand how much an age gap like that doesn't usually work. Not that it can't, but if it was more like 10 years, that would be a huge percent increase in the likelihood of it working out. However, as their story progressed, I started to lean more towards Red Head because even if Pan didn't plan for a long relationship, he was kind of mean to the kid at times, and lying is not ok when it comes to developing trust. Then he finally broke me when he started crying, and I was like "Ok, who hurt my baby?!" (I know who, but I was just making a point).
I didn't used to care about him and thought he was annoying. I was with Pan because I was closer to his age than Red Head, and understand how much an age gap like that doesn't usually work. Not that it can't, but if it was more like 10 years, that would be a huge percent increase in the likelihood of it working out. However, as their story progressed, I started to lean more towards Red Head because even if Pan didn't plan for a long relationship, he was kind of mean to the kid at times, and lying is not ok when it comes to developing trust. Then he finally broke me when he started crying, and I was like "Ok, who hurt my baby?!" (I know who, but I was just making a point).