I'm truly disappointed. Like is this forum full of angsty teens or is it adults in here t...

I'm truly disappointed. Like is this forum full of angsty teens or is it adults in here thats really shipping Ed and Chang? Like really? Why? Does no one care about Ed choice here? He clearly only ever viewed Chang as a potential brother figure. That's it. Ed never had any sexual feelings towards chang. He fell in love for the first time and it was with McQueen. He wants to be with McQueen. The ball is not in Chang's or Mcqueens court. It's in Eds. Regardless of whose back story y'all preferred more, it's McQueen who gave Ed confidence, love, and a paradigm shift about himself. It was Chang who saddled him with debt, constantly put him down, constantly trolls him, makes him do borderline criminal tasks without his consent of knowing and raped him.
So other than liking the way Chang is drawn and his back story(which doesn't help him in anyway);
Based solely off of Chang's character and actions, why do he deserve to be shipped with Ed over McQueen?