This is NOT BDSM. The play AND the punishments are decided and agreed beforehand. NONE OF THAT HAPPENED. Enjoy it but stop calling it what it isn't
The fact that you call that BDSM is the reason why that last scene was bullshit
Well sorry but in my point of view it will get worse so if we you know complain on this stage it will for sure get a lot of fighting in the fandom like we kinda do now. But oh well, for me it s funny that all the people who cancelled Chanwoo complain about that slap. I love him and when i saw all the comments about beeing cancelled I tought most of them will like that slap (=・ω・=)
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In any care this shit will scar him in a way or another i am sorry for him but at the same time he has the option to leave, we all know why he is scared to do that but he is Chanwoo so he is the person who, in other context, have the nerve to leave
Seriously it pisses me off. This is coercion. This is all wrong. This is a Dom who has experience forcing the limits of a sub who doesn't know where to put them. And he was in danger before (almost got choked). I don't know why they can't see it.
He SHOULD leave, but he is being forced to stay. MD is telling him "either you agree to this play -THAT YOU DON'T LIKE- or you stop being my sub". MD was Chanwoo safe place, his Dom. He confided in him. He doesn't wanna lose that. MD is being irresponsible.
Yes MD is petty and Chanwoo does not want to lose him, MD choked bun and he did not say the safe word because HE DOES NOT AANT TO LOSE HIM. Their relationship will get hella complicated but us saying that it is or not BDSM or complaining about them does not really matter and that is why i left my initial comment
It is clearly shown that Chanwoo has problem with establishing his limits. He is not aware of them. And MD is taking advantage of that.
And it's really bad representation of good, safe BDSM play right now. Mixing grudge and feelings in play can be really dangerous.
So....ummmm....if the comment in which i explained something din not post i will make it short here
I am not trying to make excuses for myslef and i am a coward and i have a hard time writing these for that reason so pls I am asking you to not hate me if I delete my comments if this gets tooooo much attention and I fully agree this shit is toxic but It will get worse and that is why i left my comments
Nothing but facts from my guy right here
Y' all stop whining. This is BDSM, Chanwoo by saying he will do it he gave him his consent so even thou he got slapped unless he says the safe word it means he wants it to some extent for his own reason. AND WTF WE SAW HIM GETIING SLAPPED AND OTHER THINGS BEFORE, I am well aware of the situation but just calm down and seat back and enjoy the story