Sorry I don’t think I made my post clear enough. MD was wrong for slapping Chanwoo like that because his intent wasn’t to discipline, as was mentioned. As I said, they can’t practice bdsm safetly in their mindsets. I just wanted to say that slapping itself can be a form of discipline. I mean, people use whips and paddles and all sorts of things in bdsm so slapping is also common. Again — hoping to clarify — the slap was not okay because MD has the wrong intent, but slapping the face in general is a thing in bdsm that people can be into.
yeas he also admits that he enjoy it and they did enjoy the sub/dom even if it's not a real plot, it never meant to be one. but the sub/dom aspect was there. it actually the first that makes me open up to the subject and not make me feel disgusted.
did you like it?
dude shut up stop being a troll ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
Hello blue. I just wanted to personally send apologies after seeing your reply to my bj alex topic. It was not my intention to try to justify md’s abusive actions. I admit, sometimes my word choices or syntax is not clear. I felt bad that the author was painting bdsm in this negative way and people were just seeing how something that I and many in the community enjoy can become ugly and hurtful. I just hoped to tell people that something like a slap can be great if both people are in the right mindset to practice bdsm safely, and I tried to make it clear that MD and Chanwoo are not in the right mindsets, therefore, their play was not safe. Again, I just want to restate that MD is not a good Dom in this scenario and I’m sorry if I made it seem like his actions were okay.
Hi crack dad, just an extra reply because you seem pretty active on this forum and I just wanted to say that I apologize if it sounded like I was saying MD’s actions in this play were ok, because they weren’t. It just hurts to see how bdsm and the whole “slapping” situation is being painted by the author and how people who are seeing bdsm for the first time are seeing it negatively. I know that discipline like slapping can be really great and hot when both people are into it and in the right mindset, and I just wanted people to know that it is possible for people to like that sort of thing. Of course, MD and Chanwoo were not in the right mindset and so that whole play was not safe at all. I just wanted to defend slapping as a discipline in bdsm, not MD’s slap that hurt Chanwoo.
Hey blue, I haven’t read blood bank in ages as well, but just wanted to say that there are so many psychological underpinnings that can explain why someone may enjoy being submissive or find punishment hot, and as long as they are practicing bdsm safely, the practice itself can help them cope with their emotions/trauma/mental wellbeing. Rather than harm oneself, it can actually be a nice outlet or psyche reprieve, if, again, the bdsm practice is safe and consensual.
There is nothing about my message that signifies i'm a troll. You're just an insecure idiot.
I appreciate your apology and acknowledgement for MD's actions which is clearly becoming toxic. that's the character development arc we needed!!!
I feel like a lot of people are being introduced to BDSM more through this manga, and feel uncomfortable with the slap.
I just wanna say that the slap itself isn’t the problem. After all, it’s common practice to discipline your submissive/slave like that. And if both people are into BDSM, then the sub will like the discipline and the dom will like to control that.
The issue with the play is how MD and Chanwoo haven’t communicated their feelings beforehand, and both characters are not in a state of emotional well-being to practice BDSM effectively and safely.