well story about the main couple also had similar issues right. it made me uncomfortable and i was about to give up when the story of these two came shining trough, and up to two chapters ago i really really liked it. and now we get another dickhead seme. great. can't live without those. i'll just wait till his redemption arc is finished to read on.
first off, get your terms right. sm ds are kinks, fascination with particular object is fetish. in a healthy bdsm relationship bottomsubmissive has equal, even greater greater power then top/dominant in terms of deciding on plays and dynamic specifics, while the other side gets to enjoy manifestations of power. that's what makes the relationship balanced and thus healthy. being submissive doesn't mean you have no right to be respected and being in a bdsm dynamic doesn't exclude love and romance. consent is way MORE important in bdsm then otherwise BECAUSE it is borderline violence, and trust is a must. that being said, enjoy the story if you can, just don't take it as realistic or healthy

I’m really not liking the route this is taking. Chanwoo was doing nothing wrong with wanting to date Seung-Hyun as he already told MD he didn’t want to date him. It wasn’t right for MD to throw Seung-Hyun into the mix and threaten and rile up Chanwoo like that. Now you can tell Chanwoo is doing stuff he isn’t comfortable with just to please and stay in MD’s good graces because he doesn’t want to lose him as his Dom. This is really not okay. And the fact that MD slapped Chanwoo for not wanting to make out with a man that led him on and manipulated him just to get to MD. I don’t understand why MD took it to level and brought Seung-Hyun into their arrangement. I can kind of understand more if the creator is ultimately going for a triad or m/m/m situation. However this is still turning out toxic for Chanwoo and MD. I used to really like this pairing, but I’m quickly changing my mind.