Hey! I think you should actually reach out to them as soon as possible ensuring your friendship. Sometimes people with anxiety will withdraw from friends because they think they're a problem or "toxic" for the other person. *If* this is the case, tell them that you value their friendship and maybe list some things that make them a good friend.
I agree with the person above! I’m like that and sometimes I forget that disappearing hurts the people around me . give them a second chance and ask them to talk to you about why they ghost you randomly and maybe ask them if they could warn you before they leave just so you know that it’s not your fault? however if they keep ghosting you without a proper explanation you should definitely drop them. life is too short for regrets so reach out to them :)
There are some possibilities why they leave u
maybe their someone who's unsecure of themselves and antisocial
so they first retread bc they don't feel comfortable and safe however maybe that is not the case
maybe they heard something mean from u while talking with ur friend and became sad and unhappy
maybe they have a personal problems which makes them anxious and depressed so they don't like to interact with anyone
they don't like ur personality or something I say this bc that happens to me I am kind and emphatic so whenever I see someone disrespectful even my best friend I start hating them lol i am bad
However u can fix it u just need to understand their reason
This is very random but I need help with a certain something. I was friends with this person a couple of weeks ago, and shit was going great and they were really cool for real they meant a lot to me. However suddenly they stopped talking to me (I’m not so sure what I did) and at some point they told me that they were sorry for being toxic and shit like that and I was like it’s okay it doesn’t matter. However they continued to be cold towards me so I stopped answering cuz what’s the point? I was hurt for a while and they never cared to explain to me why they were mad nor did they straightforwardly tell me they did not want to talk. So I removed them, and now weeks later I miss them a lot and I want to be friends with them again but I’m sure they don’t want to... If I tried to talk to them again, do you guys think it’s a good choice?