..I CANT SERIOUSLY I ALWAYS THINKS ABOUT THE 5 AXIOMS OF COMMUNICATE ANdSCREAM!! Paul Watzlawick defines communication with 5 Axioms 1. Ther cannot be no communication, no communication is communication. Communication is one person defining hiw they stand towards another one and when you choos not to speak and turn away you communicate saying i dont wanna speak to you or when you enter a bus you actions show your stance and willingness to use the service
2. Communication has a objective and subjective level the objective level is the information and the subjective one is how i stand towards that person which defines the information if i call a random person a "b*tch" that's an insult if id call my sister that then shed take it as a joke the information is defined by our relationship
3. Communication is evolving its a chain reaction i talk me speaking is a impulse that will attract an action someone else speaks this person's action becomes my impulse to act and speak. Communication can therefore escalate or de-escalate the communication parties can continue to work each other up (a fight) or can suddenly stop
4. Communication has an analogue and digital part digital is thw core information (spoken word) and analogue is the mimick and gestures. if i say yes and shake my head in a no gesture id send mixed messages and confuse others
5. Communication partner can have two relationships complementary ( on partner is above the other) or equal (both parties have the same standing)
... AND I ALWAYS THINK OF THEM ANS SCREMA LIKE BAE YOUR AREADY MESSING UP ALL THE STEPPS AS SOON AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS SHIFTS A ESCALATION IS UNAVAILABLE!!!!
My favourite story for an absolute escalation in a shortstroy is A Nice Guy (ein netter kerl ) by Gabriele Wohmann in which a girl unvited a man to her family dinner he leaves earlier to look after his suck mother and the whole story is the sitting there and getting angrier and angier at ther familiy (two sister ,mother, father) for making fun of him for being fat. Only to when one of the sisters asked to tell her when the "fat pigy" would come again because hes fun to.look at she tells them that he will come over more often because she just goy engaged to him and they want to marry. She then laughs "painfully" and repeats some of the things they said after everyone got quit again and stars poking their food the father/mother say "at least he is a nice guy" to which the story ends
..I CANT SERIOUSLY I ALWAYS THINKS ABOUT THE 5 AXIOMS OF COMMUNICATE ANdSCREAM!! Paul Watzlawick defines communication with 5 Axioms
1. Ther cannot be no communication, no communication is communication. Communication is one person defining hiw they stand towards another one and when you choos not to speak and turn away you communicate saying i dont wanna speak to you or when you enter a bus you actions show your stance and willingness to use the service
2. Communication has a objective and subjective level the objective level is the information and the subjective one is how i stand towards that person which defines the information if i call a random person a "b*tch" that's an insult if id call my sister that then shed take it as a joke the information is defined by our relationship
3. Communication is evolving its a chain reaction i talk me speaking is a impulse that will attract an action someone else speaks this person's action becomes my impulse to act and speak. Communication can therefore escalate or de-escalate the communication parties can continue to work each other up (a fight) or can suddenly stop
4. Communication has an analogue and digital part digital is thw core information (spoken word) and analogue is the mimick and gestures. if i say yes and shake my head in a no gesture id send mixed messages and confuse others
5. Communication partner can have two relationships complementary ( on partner is above the other) or equal (both parties have the same standing)
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AND I ALWAYS THINK OF THEM ANS SCREMA LIKE BAE YOUR AREADY MESSING UP ALL THE STEPPS AS SOON AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS SHIFTS A ESCALATION IS UNAVAILABLE!!!!
My favourite story for an absolute escalation in a shortstroy is A Nice Guy (ein netter kerl ) by Gabriele Wohmann in which a girl unvited a man to her family dinner he leaves earlier to look after his suck mother and the whole story is the sitting there and getting angrier and angier at ther familiy (two sister ,mother, father) for making fun of him for being fat. Only to when one of the sisters asked to tell her when the "fat pigy" would come again because hes fun to.look at she tells them that he will come over more often because she just goy engaged to him and they want to marry. She then laughs "painfully" and repeats some of the things they said after everyone got quit again and stars poking their food the father/mother say "at least he is a nice guy" to which the story ends