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Seme?Uke?

natsuhi August 18, 2014 4:50 am

i think i've read plenty of yaoi and i still don't understand why is it that the seme always gets surprised when the uke wants to do them. I mean why wouldn't he, the uke, not want to do the seme? they're the same and want to do the same thing so it confuses me.
So with that said can anyone recommend me yaoi mangas where the seme and uke switch positions every now and then?

Responses
    keth August 18, 2014 5:16 am

    most of yaoi manga is made by female, so it based on their fantasies and almost of yaoi manga , the uke is based on female or the mangaka emotion itself,
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/6mm_no_taboo/mrs/manga/6mm-no-taboo/v-1/6/
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/haru_wo_daite_ita/
    http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/neji_no_kaiten/

    natsuhi August 18, 2014 6:24 am

    i know that. it's just.... oh well it doesn't bother me that much i guess. just wish i could see more of them switching positions.
    Thanks a bunch for the recommendations tho. so sexy XD <3

    keth August 18, 2014 7:47 am

    switching role is more realistic just like based on real gay romance , but i am not into this kind . no problem =D

    SimplyBotany August 18, 2014 7:58 am

    I haven't read a yaoi were the uke wants to penetrate and the seme gets surprised when they are presented with the offer? Do you mind giving me some links?
    I'd like to answer your statement. As for..."I mean why wouldn't he, the uke, not want to do the seme? they're the same and want to do the same thing so it confuses me." First, you have to understand that in gay relationships, not every man wants to penetrate, just because they have penises, they have the desire to insert(they define themselves as "Bottoms"). And there are man who have no desire or simply don't get aroused when they are being penetrated(they are "Tops"). Then there are man who love to insert and be penetrated(they are "Versatile"). Therefore, you have to keep in mind what the characters desire. If two characters maintain a Top/Seme--Bottom/Uke relationship, then they are expressing their sexual desires and there is nothing you should do or judge about because they are conveying their feelings. The same thing is said for versatile couples. I mean there isn't a one way road to follow.
    I only read top-bottom sexual relationships. I have read versatile couples but it just doesn't arouses me. Therefore, it all comes down to preference.
    I've searched on google versatile manga's for you: http://www.mangaupdates.com/series.html?category=reversible+couple
    Enjoy :)

    tokidoki August 18, 2014 8:41 am

    Some guys are definitely fixed in their position of uke/seme - I have three friends who are total ukes ...

    onna31 August 18, 2014 9:00 am

    I know what u mean, here, is u wanna see same willing to change position to uke position n etc.. Haru wo Daiteita is an old (i think) and recomendable. Now thats love hehhee

    Smexsmexsmexsmex August 18, 2014 3:29 pm

    Somewhere in the Bi No Isu series the uke tries (sort of like force) the seme to be the bottom but it was only because they were in some problems and the seme said he was leaving him or something... I read the raw a while back it must have been translated by now... It yakuza, and all that comes after but prepare for some steamy hard and HOT sex scenes... Some of the sequel(s) might confuse you because it has a different picture but be not afraid to go ahead but of passing out of blood loss... A.K.A. nosebleeds

    (*O*)/ Hail Bishies August 18, 2014 3:44 pm

    It's the same in Love Stage LOL If Ryouma ever lets his gaurd down, Izumi will get him :P

    natsuhi August 18, 2014 7:14 pm

    @SimplyBotany thanks for the link and explanation ^_^. And the mangas where the seme gets surprised:
    -Love Stage
    -Samejima-Kun & Sasahara-Kun (more towards the end)
    -Rutta to Kodama (well in this one the uke wanted to try but in the end he preferred staying as an uke)
    -Hatsuai (this is a funny one XD)
    -----and many more that i can't remember at the moment srry
    @Smexsmexsmexsmex thanks for the recommendation
    @(*O*)/ Hail Bishies LOL right? Ryouma totally freaked out. tat was funny