Umm... maybe this
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shimanami_tasogare/
I'm bi. Manga can be kinda cringe when it comes to gay rep butthere's a few amazingones out there. I think it can definitely hurt the community becasue it enforces steretypes for the top/bottoms and a lot of fujos being all "precious gaybies uwu" however if you can distinguish fiction from real life and best of all if those stereotypes slowly leave manga completely I think there's nothing wrong with reading them. I personally read them all the time lol.
Here are mangas based on irl gay couples:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/until_i_meet_my_husband/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tatoeba_konna_koi_no_hanashi/
Mangas which I felt were pretty realistic:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shimanami_tasogare/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koimonogatari/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fools/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hidamari_ga_kikoeru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ani_no_hanashi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dark_heaven/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/given/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_story_of_their_first_time_yuri_on_ice_dj/
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/709718/
I really enjoyed these stories because they featured gay romance in a normal genre setting - it was super refreshing to see and is more realistic than regular bl manga - I highly recommend
What is your view of gay people? Has it been affected by the manga you have read in any single way? Do you have any reccomendations for manga with accurate/realistic gay representation. Both yaoi and yuri are good with me (●'◡'●)ノ