I completely agree with her. Just like Jun who is trying to find his place in the world, there are multiple similar cases (like person with disabilities or who feels different from the majority in many ways). But just because you're walking through the road of understanding who you are, this doesn't mean you can hurt people in the process because you're the one who's struggling. Frankly I'm sad that Jun can't be honest with himself but I am also really mad at him because he should have rejected her in the first place (he didn't need to tell her the truth but still, since he didn't like her, he had to reject her).
in that one scene with her friend making jun uncomfortable, that’s where I think he got the idea from. I mean think about it, she’s stood there and watched as they made each other’s boyfriends touch each other as characters in the bls would do. thats probably where he got the ideal that she likes homos not him. in that moment jun was used as well. For their satisfaction.
Okay sure, that was something not very good (still it was her friend idea, but she should have had stopped it) but this happens AFTER Jun accepts her feelings. She believes he is straight so okay, maybe she was using her bf to see something she liked, but from her point of view, how could she know he wad indeed gay?
Everything wouldn't have happened if Jun had rejected her from the beginning. He didn't need to tell her the truth (that he is gay), he just needed to say "sorry, I like you but not in the romantic way".
Yeah I think that fetishization of gay people is cringy and hurtful. It's a shame that many young teens like Miura end up making comments like that without knowing anything. I don't think Miura is fully a victim as her way of thinking of real gay people is hurtful, but saying "you like homos don't you" after cheating on her like that is also really cruel.
I think it's a mess really
My respect for you when seeing your reply went ty so much for not coming for me personally and respecting my opinion, I agree with yours as well, all in all I hope jun finds happiness
woww thank you <3
I hope this ends up with the characters growing from their mistakes but we'll have to see what happens.
None of you even has the right to be mad at Miura. Like she was lied to, used, and Jun played with her feelings. In the end of chapter 5 Jun even mocks her by saying how she likes homos after all. Yes Jun is suffering very much right now, but that gives him no right to treat her like that. While he seems to be in more pain than her, this is not a pity contest and both of their pain and stories are valid. I saw some comments saying how could she treat him like that in such a moment but ?? she doesn't know anything, remember.
I think we should just aprecciate that both characters are morally grey, not completely bad or good, and look forward to the character development.