OKAY, so possibly unpopular opinion. I know some of y'all hella bent cause it looks like they'll end up together but despite all the disgusting things that happened, honestly both their lives went down hill because of their individual traumas and misunderstandings. That doesn't justify his actions, that's on period. He let his psyche become broken and lost his grip on reality and how to deal with his emotions bc of trauma he couldn't face and a warped sense of what it meant to love and be loved. Now, obviously at the end of the day dohyun was forced to confront the fact that he did love sungho and that cutting off his feelings made life meaningless. Back then he'd screwed up both of their lives by handling his feelings poorly and refusing to confront and identity his feelings properly. He's still very much the victim, however, what I'm saying is all this could've been solved had they both handled things better. In comparison it does seem like sungho is just mentally unstable and needs serious serious therapy, because once again from the beginning his sense of what it means to love someone and be loved was warped & constantly sacrificing his feelings so that he'd be loved and not abandoned only further pushed him over the edge of a mental break. Honestly, in the end I do want them both to be happy, but I also want them both to get the psychological help they desperately need. Because this whooooole situation was caused by them not being able to handle their traumas in a healthy manor and instead letting it break them mentally or warp their sense of morality and humanity. So honestly just wishing them ten years of therapy and happiness.
OKAY, so possibly unpopular opinion. I know some of y'all hella bent cause it looks like they'll end up together but despite all the disgusting things that happened, honestly both their lives went down hill because of their individual traumas and misunderstandings. That doesn't justify his actions, that's on period. He let his psyche become broken and lost his grip on reality and how to deal with his emotions bc of trauma he couldn't face and a warped sense of what it meant to love and be loved. Now, obviously at the end of the day dohyun was forced to confront the fact that he did love sungho and that cutting off his feelings made life meaningless. Back then he'd screwed up both of their lives by handling his feelings poorly and refusing to confront and identity his feelings properly. He's still very much the victim, however, what I'm saying is all this could've been solved had they both handled things better. In comparison it does seem like sungho is just mentally unstable and needs serious serious therapy, because once again from the beginning his sense of what it means to love someone and be loved was warped & constantly sacrificing his feelings so that he'd be loved and not abandoned only further pushed him over the edge of a mental break. Honestly, in the end I do want them both to be happy, but I also want them both to get the psychological help they desperately need. Because this whooooole situation was caused by them not being able to handle their traumas in a healthy manor and instead letting it break them mentally or warp their sense of morality and humanity. So honestly just wishing them ten years of therapy and happiness.