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Has anyone noticed? Do you guys agree?

Kay August 1, 2020 8:05 am

I’ve only read vol.1 so far but to me, a person who has Autism, it seems clear that Nakahara has autism (*FunFact-In Autopsy Autistic brains actually look different . A lot of times, when he expressed himself in words or thoughts, he seems to feel the same way as myself & others with autism:

—He explains feeling distanced from those around: “Its like I’m watching everyone (from a raft) on the shore while i slowly drift away” - a lot of autistic people in their teens start to feel like they are getting further and further away (mentally) then those around them and unfortunately that feeling is with you for life. I say its like being the only sober person in a room full of drunks.

—He’s a loner, but doesn't seem worried about it. Its not that we don't want friends we just don't know how to get them (currently i don't have any friends - haven't for over 15yrs). So usually the only friendships we get are with those who approached us.

—He actually shows surprise at being called a friend. We have difficulty identifying our relationships with those around us.

—Having a grumpy face, when its actually he’s normal face. I’m always having people ask if I'm ok all my life, but i only realised why when i was told in my teens. Unlike others we don’t have that natural instinct(?) to smile when we see others.

—Autistic people Monotropic minds [focuses its attention on a small number of interests at any time & interests that are active at any given time tend to consume most of the available attention]. So we tend to have a limited number of, often obscure, interests & we also tend to now everything about those interests as well.

—Lastly- the women he had sex with (in case you don't know having sex with a minor IS sexual abuse). I heard on a documentary that 90% of women with a mental/cognitive disability are sexually abused at some point in their life (sorry, i don't know the male figures). Any flirting or suggestive behaviour or words would have been lost on him, but she would have thought he was receptive. Even when she took him back to her home & started putting moves on him, he still wouldn't have understood. Afterwards he wouldn't be angry or happy or any emotion other than confusion and discomfort. So he wouldn't understand his classmates reactions (i was sexually abused at 5 and was only left with those feelings - i didn't even know it was abuse until my early 20s, cos i didn't tell anyone cos i didn't know i should.

As you can see there is A LOT of evidence that he could have autism - i could have just simply listed the points, but because most people don't know much as out autism i thought it best to explain how those points lead to autism.

Responses
    yEet January 18, 2021 12:05 pm

    Oh- i didnt even think of that. Thanks for spreading awareness! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    yEet January 18, 2021 12:06 pm

    And i hope youre doing fine :)