I feel for Ja-wook, he's going through all this pain just to stay by Yung yeon's side because he loves him BUT it's not fair to Yung yeon, he was very clear from the jump. He laid out his preferences/emotional conditions in a written agreement. Ja-wook is consenting to this physical pain partially because of his history with abuse. This portrayal of BDSM gives it a bad rep. Yung yeon shouldn't have to give up on his sexual preferences just as Ja-wook shouldn't have to endure pain.
I feel for Ja-wook, he's going through all this pain just to stay by Yung yeon's side because he loves him BUT it's not fair to Yung yeon, he was very clear from the jump. He laid out his preferences/emotional conditions in a written agreement. Ja-wook is consenting to this physical pain partially because of his history with abuse. This portrayal of BDSM gives it a bad rep. Yung yeon shouldn't have to give up on his sexual preferences just as Ja-wook shouldn't have to endure pain.