you shouldn't say that! My father separate from my mom when i was really young and he visited me every week. you just one father bond by blood.
( sorry if the english isn't correct)
I agree and disagree if he left my mother for another woman didn't apologize and made my mother into a complete mess of different levels I would sock his sorry ass :) punch his balls to the point he can't make no more babies (: but if he is there for us and he is still a loving father and doesn't abandon us I would hate him maybe from time to time a little dislike but that's it .
I mean wouldn't hate him*
If my dad had abandoned my mom for some other woman, he'd still be my dad, but my respect for him would be zero and I'd always prefer my mom to him--so that if both were drowning, I'd save mom and dad could drown, sorry. But he'd still be dad and that doesn't change. But love would go downhill. I could no longer respect or honor him properly if he was a cheating shit.
I hate the story, husband so awful, leaving ur wife and child for another woman. if my father do this , am not going to speak to him ever and i will make his live miserable