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uh exactly!!! and ppl complaining that they have to be more mature because they have experienced this before - if i was treated with dirt and suddenly handed kindness, i wouldn't want to let it go either. i would feel even more betrayed, because why be kind to me when you're just throwing me away?
exactly!!! trauma is real and it doesn't go away with a snap. it takes time and real effort to overwrite such painful memories that's been engraved into them
First and foremost, majority of your opinion differ from mine and that's fine. I'm not going to attack you for having your own opinion. This is just how I view things.
You're all complaining how they're 25 years old. Why? They died as teens. Then they reincarnated into children so if we add the age from their past lives, and current toddler lives, it results in them being 25. They didn't get to live the life of an adult where you have to constantly work or file all these paperwork for loans or debt or things like that. Age does not define your mentality, experience does.
Next it's how they don't trust their family. Yes they got an explanation but do you expect them to forgive them right away and accept the apology? You shouldn't accept someone's apology for their sake, but for your own. So yes they need time to process this and find out who to trust after being in an abusive environment for years, which can seriously fuck with someone, and have trust issues with everyone around them.