is this really yaoi or just shounen-ai, does this have sex in it? plz somebody tell me:3

Yeah, it is yaoi, there is not a whole lot of actual sex, but there is some and lots of skinship. (I have looked at the raws and the BIG scene will be posted fairly soon (Chapter 54). That being said, this manga is a lot more about telling a complex story than it is about any smuttiness, so if you are waiting for that, well, there is not a lot of it to be had. (It is a truly great story though - I am on my 7th read through already)

ok thanks for telling :)