the FL has NOT received a "yes" from the FL other than during the one night stand and is just charging ahead?? Just consider - everything in one's life, including professionally, depending on the whim of a partner? Coerced to marry??? How is that a good thing? Try, for a sec, to turn off the thirsty part of yourself, and re-consider... If you really didn't quite fancy a handsome prospective partner but they basically said, oh I have decided for our life together...
the FL has NOT received a "yes" from the FL other than during the one night stand and is just charging ahead?? Just consider - everything in one's life, including professionally, depending on the whim of a partner? Coerced to marry??? How is that a good thing? Try, for a sec, to turn off the thirsty part of yourself, and re-consider... If you really didn't quite fancy a handsome prospective partner but they basically said, oh I have decided for our life together...