Well, i don't have the details yet couse i didn't read the novel, just saw some spoilers... But acording to people that did read it the history is kinda a slow burn romance, more focused in politics and stuff like that... romance having a little bit less space.
And about how the harem works... Well she is a Emperess...it was normal of the for emperors and kings to marry many woman.. So i think that she marrying three men was not of a big deal... And also aparently the fluff between the couples os divide equally
Guess I'll read it until it pushes my limits then. I honestly don't understand why so many people are excited for the harem. To me, it's not fun watching someone jerk others' feelings around, never committing to one. Especially if the guys are all lovable like the comments are saying. Whether it's a female harem or a male harem, both are terrible and hurtful.

Can anyone explain the harem ending me? I'm really, really not into harems, but if the romance is more of a side plot, or treated casually then it's tolerable. Is it a "I love all of you and I just can't choose, woe is me" or "I don't particularly like any of you but I'll keep you around" situation?