Yup and that's the kicker of the situation. As soon as you say you dont trust them, even though they give you a reason not to, it already encourages them to cheat on you. It's best if your looking for monogamy between 2 people to avoid people who don't share that same intrest. With trupoules and polyamory gaining popularity. I think most people of my generation and lower are gonna be shit out of luck. Because many countries have issues with infidelity in their marriage. And I think culture has a big part in it. Things like social media, corporate culture, old traditions, new wave religion, and increasingly hostility from pollution can contribute to the increasing number of people who just dont give a shit. Less monogamy and more like sex bots and cyber prostitutes are the direction things are going. Sad but not me, I dont need a man not do I feel like taking their cheating mess because they say they love me. Nope, boo I can can a monkey as my life friend I dont need a human fuckin up my chakras. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I'm right there with you! Im working on being a blogger so I can pay my own way. If I do find a man, which you know as much as I do on how realistic that seems. I feel bad for him because I'm gonna test the shit out of him. Not because I'm mean per say. But because men have had so much privilege and either minorities have had to suffer for thousands of years around that. So I dont want toxic karma in my chakras, so I'm gonna do my best to allow myself to keep that vibe going. If a man comes it's exactly that, he comes and is apart of the story but not my ruler, nor my boss or my emotional pillow. I think I want to adopt because I think a child's love for their parents is the only way you can close to purity in this world. If he is faithful then holy shit I hit the jackpot, but I'm real ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Same, I am intersexed so I would have to have surgery to have a child. But honestly if you just think about yourself as a spirit and not mortal for a moment what is the importance to your experience in life? Children are awesome to those who have that in their souls experience and cherished it but that doesn't define anyone.
We are on the cusp of the next evolution in human history, any woman can have a kid trans, cis, intersexed. So the issue isn't our choice to not have kids, I feel like us women have had to bare alot of the burden of that a majority of life. But I feel like kids, or having a man or woman, being the best hoe at church. That means nothing if you don't have you, so much wasted efforts in life are hurtful when we as oppressed people allow our lives to be canvasses for the world to wipe their ass with. While I feel in my opinion I think being human and being alive is a wonderful way to grow personally rather then following others. To live a life untamed and free is a wonderful gift that many who have kids or who get married or who are corporate slaves. Crave so they take advantage of us who play life by our rules. And it's not easy but ultimately when you heal emotionally, eventually you realize your better off because they will likely never be full in life. They will always be hungry so they cheat, beat, oppress, control, lie, create whole religions, and societies to build up some sorta "normal" when they are far from it. I studied alot about history, sociology, spirituality, psychology, and sexuality, enough to know that the world is clouded and those who can find their way are better off. Then those who stay in that type of life, finding your soul tribe or soul family is pretty invaluable because it like water you need it we are made of it. And those are the people or animals I want in my life not people who shoot me while I'm down, or stab me in the back naw. I wont judge them because karma will teach them just fine how ever I wont feel guilty leaving lol ╮(￣▽￣)╭ there is more D in the world then for me to get upset or for man to shame me or cheat. They didn't betray me because I'm worthy in life, but they betrayed themselves because they felt like they could. So while it is not easy if you spent a long time with someone I feel like you just dodged a bullet. Lol let the dog return to it's own vomit when you leave, because they will feel so ashamed they will eat it. I may be that bitch but once I see they have dont that type of behavior. I don't say a word to them I leave and don't look back. (▰˘◡˘▰)
Well if it counts you can do it, I'm sure there is away together away but also take care of your mom. I can empathize because I also have a mom I treasure, how ever I do speak Korean and Japanese for a reason I also have places I wanna go so I'm gonna do my best to do something lol. Don't worry your allow to access your feelings just because we are different doesn't mean we aren't alike as human you know
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Things sometimes happen how ever nothing hopefully we can't grow from.
I'm just happy I was the one who got to empathize with someone who gets it you know. I don't mind the rants at all ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
The first story was the only downfall. But it was a good lesson for me when I do have a relationship. You guys hate the sensei but takes two to tango they are both equally toxic. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ if it were me I wouldn't have confessed, because he's a slut. And you can't change a slut that's karma's job.