Hi can someone please talk to me ... it's worth it to to let go of someone u love when u r...

mean its my first time giving up and he had gave up for 5time now and it really really hurts me

Umm i just wanted to share it in case i mi3do something... and to release my emotions

I really felt broke ... i know i sounds like oa but it really hurts more than u think

you have to realize for yourself if it‘s really worth it to come back to him?
if you 2 try again will there be any changes for the better?
how about in the next few years?

i was in 6 year of on/off relationship , we live together but in the end, i realize that those emotional & mental suffering is not worth it. so broke up with him.
at first it was really bad, i thought that i will die without him but i thought to my self that i have to prioritise & love myself first.
& its not worth it if i‘m the only one who‘s giving so much & he‘s only recieving. it should goes for both ways.
i‘m now single for 2 years & i‘m satisfied with my current life. ^^

I really appreciate ur time replying... it really helps alot ... thank you so much

no its not oa ur feelings r valid. Kailangan mo ma realize ang tunay na pagmamahal mo sakanya. Yang feeling mo na “hurt” mawawala rin yan. Ienjoy mo yan kasi isang beses lang yan mangyare. You need to let go of someone tapos focus ka sa sarili mo best advice <3

Salamat i really appreciate ur advice... its just making me cry

Help me please it really hurts....

i know it hurts but its only for now.
for me, i took 2-3 months to recover. (not to cry anymore when i‘m alone or thinking of begging to be back together again).
you can do it.
distract yourself with your family & friends, read more mangas, study for school, try something new.
for me i was alone. i had no one to help me because everyone was busy with their own lives. & i live alone so i talked with my colleagues more luckily they have time to listen to me. a have a very good friend always stayed with me when i broke down.
& at that time i concentrate myself with my driving licence ^^
now i have my drivings licence & i have my own car ^^

I dont know anymore... i cant feel any emotion except sadness

It's so devastating... i dont want to share this to any person that know me.. they will just judge him

It really hurts sooo much

everyone will judge him, its normal.
because these people will be on your side.
why do you want to hear someone says „ yes its all your fault not him“ ? you should’ve please him better? you should go back & beg him? be in relationship again, maybe this time, it will be better??
is that what you want to hear?

if someone said that to me before i will block these people from my life. i dont need someone who will say that its all my fault & that i should do better to please him. nope.
i‘m talking to them so they can give me advise what i should do better, how to move on & not to help me & advise me to go back with the same person who hurt me & the person i‘m trying to forget.

but you know its your own decision. its your choice ^^
you can do what you want for your love.
i left because i learned to love myself more.
i dont want to be ruined over someone who doesnt even care about me.

go back to him if thats what you really want.
but ask yourself if its really worth it

I ask him to wait for me in 2 years... yea i keep pleasing him yea i know i am dumb for now but he had done so much for me..yea we broke up because i still havent love myself i am still not matured that is why i said that i will be back in 2 years... i still have no answer if its worth it maybe i might know that by then on... yea he keep saying i have no future yea it motivate me to wprk more and yea it hurts me it hurts me but thats why i get when i went to love someone when i still havent love myself first so yea maybe just maybe after i will know the situation clearly when my head says that give up when i now start to knoe that its not worth it then yea

I keep protecting him yea it hurts me in the same time yea i love myself yes its our fault and yes i know that its really not worth it but in some side it says that its worth it.... im really confused

Maybe for now i still cant love myself

I really thank you for ur help

I feel like crying all the time