There are lists with rape and incest, but I don't think they also have shota in them, so I think you can go ahead and make a list with all 3 of them. Some people might really like it (=・ω・=)
im sure they said a list without those things
If you want to make a list of yaoi without the added kinks of rape,incest,and shota it's up to you. That's what the list is for, and you can always ask for recommendations. Most people have 'fluff' lists to get away from the rape tropes in manga and just focus on the happy/heartwarming lovey story.
This one might work:
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/22515/?filter=&page=1
At least the ones I recognize all lack the things you mention. I would also recommend almost anything by Natsume Isaku.
Thank you, this looks great!
Thank you for your responses everyone!
Rape, incest, shota... It's not that I hate it; sometimes they add a kinky spice to an otherwise boring manga. For the most part, though, I prefer hot yaoi without these things. So I was thinking that I should make a list with "rape, incest and shota"-free yaoi, but maybe someone already did? Does anyone know?