I can kind of understand how both sides are being selfish. Yeah, the athletes are REALLY s...

but he doesn't want to do it...imagine you don't want to do something and you're basically forced to do it on a daily basis because it's so convenient for everyone else. And when you finally stand up for yourself you're guilt tripped into continuing by people telling you "you're selfish" etc. tbh he's not their parents. he's not obligated to do it, or responsible for them and if he says he doesn't want to, then saying thanks isn't even fulfilling. just because you have free time doesn't mean other people can use it for their convenience.

let alone on top of being used like that, after he finally wants to do something for himself he's told no because he's being too selfish and not being the useful convenient person they want him to be. it's so stupid. he's not selfish and the rest need to let go and fend for themselves. who the hell do they think they are tbh.

I completly agree with you!!
And that idiotic father should care more about his own son! It's treating him like a servant! And rest off them need to be teched a lesson!Just if you practise it id dosent mean that everyone need to take care of you!!
It's simply screeming ABUSE!!

no, he has free time because he stopped doing their housework. Before he had no free time except for student council work. And how can you find a job when you have to clean the house, do laundry, go grocery shopping and cook dinner for that amount of people. I get the comment about coming home to a hot meal but they don't have school everyday and none of the rest of them makes dinner for him on those days.

I forgot to add studying because he is going to go to college and has to do all that entails.