doesn't feel like love to me

I have to say, if someone ends up doing what Rin did to Kana in that bar, then that is not love. I don't think anyone could stand seeing the loved one being abused no matter what the reason is. Plus, honestly, in the whole manga I haven't seen any sign of love coming from Rin. He's just hurt, revengeful and completely lacking any emotion. I pity Kana for the love he has...