Well, seeing the latest chapters and the last one from the raws, I think that the dude (Mr. Han) probably (?) has some real feelings towards Param, so I feel like if he doesn't do anything bad again, I'll probably stop disliking him (lol). Anyway, we can't really tell how much of him is real or if he is a snake (personally, I think he's 50% snake, 40% a capable businessman, and 10% an honest man with the capability of love sincerely), especially because he's so good at hiding everything, so it's not like we who doesn't like him/trust him, can be blamed.
Letting that aside, the reason why he's been so disliked (IMO) and I truly rejected him in the past (I still don't like him, but maybe my opinion on him will change in the future, idk), it's because he never treated Param with the respect, care, and consideration that he deserved, and because of the type of dude he was in his private life and with his previous lover (that was the turning point for me and when I decided I'd reject him yes or yes. From that moment I knew he was scum and that's when I decided I wouldn't ship him with Param, EVER).
In general, I don't like how the CEO relates to Param. Mr. Han has been constantly abusing the power of his position to put Param in uncomfortable/stressful/distressful situations (the examples begun from ch. 1) or to force him somehow, even when it was obvious that it'll displease/affect Param (and he still does it, you can go and check the latest chapters of the raws). Anyway, Mr. Han has really never cared about Param's pov or feelings; their relationship is 100% superficial and that's why, despite knowing the crisis our MC was going through at the beginning of the story, he decided to keep playing blind and pushing our MC over and over again, just to have 'fun' with his reactions.
Mr. Han has been a twisted cheeky b4sta4rd since the very beginning and the only reason he "changed", was because he knew there was competition with Hwi. That's enough reason to dislike him, and IMO what he did to his ex-lover is enough to hate him as well. Or are we going to forget that he kept sleeping with other men while continuing to pretending to be the perfect man who was unaware of Param's feelings just to keep toying with him? Or are we going to forget how he just "kissed" Param when he was drugged because he thought our MC was in such bad state to even be able to remember? Or are we going to forget he just went directly to sleep with another guy after forcing that kiss and then treated that poor bottom in such a disgusting way?
I MEAN, Mr. Han tried as much as possible to run away from any emotional attachment and that includes Param as well, that would be fair if it wasn't because the dude kept playing with Param's feelings towards him, and then he suddenly changes his decision of not having anything serious, just because there was someone else playing with his toy. How does that type of "feelings" can be trusted? He's never been honest with anyone and yeah, maybe he's not the worst, but he's certainly not the best either.
The reason why the CEO kissed Param in the pub's exit when he was drugged, it was because he didn't want to be accountable for what he's done; he didn't want Param to know the truth, because he didn't want to give Param's an answer, he didn't want to be accountable of what he's done because that would mean he wouldn't be able to continue playing with Param's feelings.
Idk how you felt about it, but when we discovered that he always knew how Param felt about him I felt bad (just like Param did9. The dude has been playing with Param's feelings from the very beginning; instead of respecting his feelings, talking with Param about the conflict that our boy was going through at the beginning of the story (Mr. Han was aware, he didn't care but kept attacking that inner conflict), or maybe do something to stop playing with him; he just ignored everything to continue holding his position of power over our MC.
Maybe those situations I'm talking about of Mr. Han playing with Param are not such a big deal now, but at the beginning of the story, our MC was a baby who was in such a vulnerable and sensible state. which is why it was worse that Mr. Han was just toying with him. Param used to see Mr. Han not just as his boss but as his model role, it wasn't just his ideal man for his body, he truly admired him and respected him, but Mr. Han, instead of responding with respect, care, and consideration to all that, he decided to mock Param's feelings by continuing teasing him (not just when they were just the two together, but also when they were in front of others -I'm talking about this because this has always been important for Param-); he purposefully mocked Param about situations the boy hasn't even figured it out how to deal with yet by putting him under stressful situations and playing with his anxiety over and over again. Do we need more reasons to dislike/hating him?
I'm not saying Mr. Han is the worst male character ever, I mean, gladly he hasn't r*ped/didn't Param or did something atrocious for example; but the man has a big flaw and is what the author already wrote: his facade is the most important thing for him (for good -he's a good boss, I won't take that from his character- or for bad -he never truly shows his sincerity, and the lowest part of that, it was the way he treated his previous lover. Agaaaain, idk if people are forgetting that because I don't-). Who knows what kind of thoughts or intentions he had while putting Param under those situations, maybe he's not that bad of a dude and maybe he'll give us a nice surprise in the future WHO KNOWS, but the reality is that in front of Hwi, Mr. Han's flaws have become more and more obvious, he becomes less and less attractive, his feelings look so bland, so immature, just like a kid playing with a toy, a toy who won't even take care of and it'll probably be broken because he doesn't know how to have something of value. So yeah, basically there's no way that he'll ever shine as bright as our ML.
In that regard, I'm pretty open to see Mr. Han's development, but I truly doubt we'll have a meaningful one or something truly relevant coming from him. I mean, even now when it seems the CEO is no longer trying to play with Param, he still does it. The dude doesn't understand how to relate with someone without being overbearing, or pushy, or cynical with that "perfect" face; he doesn't understand either how to relate to Param as equals or without taking advantage of his position as his superior (which makes it harder for him to break the game he put Param into from the beginning). In other stories, maybe a type of guy like Mr. Han would have bigger chances, or even would be our ML (let's be honest); but in this story, he definitely doesn't look good.
In general, I simply can't imagine a relationship between ParamXCEO, when Hwi is there. Param's emotional needs fit perfectly well with what Hwi naturally is, both of them relate to each other in a way that allows them to get closer without fear, both respect and care for each other, and everything grows smoothly; but Mr. Han it's a different case. The CEO does pay attention to Param, but he doesn't do it with the intention to know him/understand better/to get close to each other TO BE HAPPY TOGETHER, he does it to know how to toy with him better, or to tease him differently to have fun. Despite the current intents of Mr. Han to get closer to Param, I still think he's not enough for Param; the dude it's not truly interested in Param as a person, he doesn't want to discover what does he like, what does he think, what's important for him, what are his boundaries or how does he like to handle his private life and the public, etc. etc. (or if he truly wants that, then he's pretty bad at showing it, to be fair it seems that he just wants to have fun and showcase himself in front of Param because he wants to keep feeling superior).
Even when Param and Hwi didn't get along together, the reality is that Hwi never treated Param badly in front of others, he never exposed him, he either went too far with him nor did he put him under stressful situations, and he certainly never took for granted our MC's feelings. It doesn't matter how much Hwi could have teased Param at the beginning of the story, he's always been extremely considerate towards Param's boundaries, especially when related to other people (which is something truly important for Param, especially because how important is his job for him and how vulnerable he felt at the beginning of the story because he didn't know how to deal with his emotions and his body situation at first), but obviously, Mr. Han doesn't understand that.
Well, seeing the latest chapters and the last one from the raws, I think that the dude (Mr. Han) probably (?) has some real feelings towards Param, so I feel like if he doesn't do anything bad again, I'll probably stop disliking him (lol). Anyway, we can't really tell how much of him is real or if he is a snake (personally, I think he's 50% snake, 40% a capable businessman, and 10% an honest man with the capability of love sincerely), especially because he's so good at hiding everything, so it's not like we who doesn't like him/trust him, can be blamed.
Letting that aside, the reason why he's been so disliked (IMO) and I truly rejected him in the past (I still don't like him, but maybe my opinion on him will change in the future, idk), it's because he never treated Param with the respect, care, and consideration that he deserved, and because of the type of dude he was in his private life and with his previous lover (that was the turning point for me and when I decided I'd reject him yes or yes. From that moment I knew he was scum and that's when I decided I wouldn't ship him with Param, EVER).
In general, I don't like how the CEO relates to Param. Mr. Han has been constantly abusing the power of his position to put Param in uncomfortable/stressful/distressful situations (the examples begun from ch. 1) or to force him somehow, even when it was obvious that it'll displease/affect Param (and he still does it, you can go and check the latest chapters of the raws). Anyway, Mr. Han has really never cared about Param's pov or feelings; their relationship is 100% superficial and that's why, despite knowing the crisis our MC was going through at the beginning of the story, he decided to keep playing blind and pushing our MC over and over again, just to have 'fun' with his reactions.
Mr. Han has been a twisted cheeky b4sta4rd since the very beginning and the only reason he "changed", was because he knew there was competition with Hwi. That's enough reason to dislike him, and IMO what he did to his ex-lover is enough to hate him as well. Or are we going to forget that he kept sleeping with other men while continuing to pretending to be the perfect man who was unaware of Param's feelings just to keep toying with him? Or are we going to forget how he just "kissed" Param when he was drugged because he thought our MC was in such bad state to even be able to remember? Or are we going to forget he just went directly to sleep with another guy after forcing that kiss and then treated that poor bottom in such a disgusting way?
I MEAN, Mr. Han tried as much as possible to run away from any emotional attachment and that includes Param as well, that would be fair if it wasn't because the dude kept playing with Param's feelings towards him, and then he suddenly changes his decision of not having anything serious, just because there was someone else playing with his toy. How does that type of "feelings" can be trusted? He's never been honest with anyone and yeah, maybe he's not the worst, but he's certainly not the best either.
The reason why the CEO kissed Param in the pub's exit when he was drugged, it was because he didn't want to be accountable for what he's done; he didn't want Param to know the truth, because he didn't want to give Param's an answer, he didn't want to be accountable of what he's done because that would mean he wouldn't be able to continue playing with Param's feelings.
Idk how you felt about it, but when we discovered that he always knew how Param felt about him I felt bad (just like Param did9. The dude has been playing with Param's feelings from the very beginning; instead of respecting his feelings, talking with Param about the conflict that our boy was going through at the beginning of the story (Mr. Han was aware, he didn't care but kept attacking that inner conflict), or maybe do something to stop playing with him; he just ignored everything to continue holding his position of power over our MC.
Maybe those situations I'm talking about of Mr. Han playing with Param are not such a big deal now, but at the beginning of the story, our MC was a baby who was in such a vulnerable and sensible state. which is why it was worse that Mr. Han was just toying with him. Param used to see Mr. Han not just as his boss but as his model role, it wasn't just his ideal man for his body, he truly admired him and respected him, but Mr. Han, instead of responding with respect, care, and consideration to all that, he decided to mock Param's feelings by continuing teasing him (not just when they were just the two together, but also when they were in front of others -I'm talking about this because this has always been important for Param-); he purposefully mocked Param about situations the boy hasn't even figured it out how to deal with yet by putting him under stressful situations and playing with his anxiety over and over again. Do we need more reasons to dislike/hating him?
I'm not saying Mr. Han is the worst male character ever, I mean, gladly he hasn't r*ped/didn't Param or did something atrocious for example; but the man has a big flaw and is what the author already wrote: his facade is the most important thing for him (for good -he's a good boss, I won't take that from his character- or for bad -he never truly shows his sincerity, and the lowest part of that, it was the way he treated his previous lover. Agaaaain, idk if people are forgetting that because I don't-). Who knows what kind of thoughts or intentions he had while putting Param under those situations, maybe he's not that bad of a dude and maybe he'll give us a nice surprise in the future WHO KNOWS, but the reality is that in front of Hwi, Mr. Han's flaws have become more and more obvious, he becomes less and less attractive, his feelings look so bland, so immature, just like a kid playing with a toy, a toy who won't even take care of and it'll probably be broken because he doesn't know how to have something of value. So yeah, basically there's no way that he'll ever shine as bright as our ML.
In that regard, I'm pretty open to see Mr. Han's development, but I truly doubt we'll have a meaningful one or something truly relevant coming from him. I mean, even now when it seems the CEO is no longer trying to play with Param, he still does it. The dude doesn't understand how to relate with someone without being overbearing, or pushy, or cynical with that "perfect" face; he doesn't understand either how to relate to Param as equals or without taking advantage of his position as his superior (which makes it harder for him to break the game he put Param into from the beginning). In other stories, maybe a type of guy like Mr. Han would have bigger chances, or even would be our ML (let's be honest); but in this story, he definitely doesn't look good.
In general, I simply can't imagine a relationship between ParamXCEO, when Hwi is there. Param's emotional needs fit perfectly well with what Hwi naturally is, both of them relate to each other in a way that allows them to get closer without fear, both respect and care for each other, and everything grows smoothly; but Mr. Han it's a different case. The CEO does pay attention to Param, but he doesn't do it with the intention to know him/understand better/to get close to each other TO BE HAPPY TOGETHER, he does it to know how to toy with him better, or to tease him differently to have fun. Despite the current intents of Mr. Han to get closer to Param, I still think he's not enough for Param; the dude it's not truly interested in Param as a person, he doesn't want to discover what does he like, what does he think, what's important for him, what are his boundaries or how does he like to handle his private life and the public, etc. etc. (or if he truly wants that, then he's pretty bad at showing it, to be fair it seems that he just wants to have fun and showcase himself in front of Param because he wants to keep feeling superior).
Even when Param and Hwi didn't get along together, the reality is that Hwi never treated Param badly in front of others, he never exposed him, he either went too far with him nor did he put him under stressful situations, and he certainly never took for granted our MC's feelings. It doesn't matter how much Hwi could have teased Param at the beginning of the story, he's always been extremely considerate towards Param's boundaries, especially when related to other people (which is something truly important for Param, especially because how important is his job for him and how vulnerable he felt at the beginning of the story because he didn't know how to deal with his emotions and his body situation at first), but obviously, Mr. Han doesn't understand that.