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I don't care about the body weight. But let's be logic. If you're pretty, being slim or fa...

Shiyai November 24, 2020 4:40 pm

I don't care about the body weight. But let's be logic. If you're pretty, being slim or fat will not change that. You're still pretty. And if your face is normal, it's also didn't change whether you're slim or fat
Being slim will not automatically made you pretty. Maybe wearing makeup will, but not getting slim.

People usually start dieting because they wanted to gain confidence for looking sexy (I don't think that's necessary tho) or for health reasons. For me, I want to get slim because I wanted my husband to easily carry me. That's all ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍
But definitely not because I wanted to be pretty. That's just bull

Responses
    shinz July 6, 2021 1:04 pm

    Pretty people are still pretty and gets some kind of "privilege" even if they're fat but I kinda disagree with the normal face part, being slim changes a lot of things if you have a normal face, mainly is you won't be treated like you're invisible. I experienced this a lot as someone fat with a pretty average face, people tend to ignore me as opposed to slim people with average looks. I had moments in my teen years where my cousin(who has a pretty normal face but slim) and I tried to get close with locals our age and they pretty much ignored me the whole time even when I tried to be as outgoing as my cousin but recently when I started losing weight and we visit there, they just naturally tried to befriend me and honestly, it just hurt me more because I realized that in their mind I wasn't deserving of basic decency just because I was fat.

    Winterlandkris July 29, 2023 4:40 pm
    Pretty people are still pretty and gets some kind of "privilege" even if they're fat but I kinda disagree with the normal face part, being slim changes a lot of things if you have a normal face, mainly is you w... shinz

    Dude, same. I was treated as though I didn't exist when I was in high school cause of how "overweight" I was. But I was still healthy - I still worked out every weekend and was like 65kg. I may be overweight but I was healthy. It hurt so much that the boys my age were making competitions of asking me out - making bets on how long it would take for me to date them. I still remember how they bet $100 that I would date one of them. I was just a game to them. No one should be treated as a "thing" just because they're different- whether it's a physical or mental difference. I personally, don't care if someone is "fat" or not. I'd date them regardless so long as their personality is cute.