agreed, i started off really liking this manga and everyone was telling me to read it because it was similar to my favourite manga, viewfinder but it's not at all... besides the gang aspect of it. The seme in this manga is insecure and extreme to the point of tattooing his lovers neck while he sleeps... um.. psycho?
Every heard of BDSM? Well that's what they do, that's why he calls him Master and how now he's has a tattoo collar. He's possessive and very attached him, if you ever read BDSM before then this type of behavior isn't a surprise, lol.
I am not talking about you, sorry, I am talking about the uke who accept such a treatment and all my respect to you and your opinion. everyone knows what will make him happy but I am just asking if I am the only one who hate this kind of stories, I dont care about his background or family but I believe love is equal to respect , care , of course to value the one he loves , makes him happy and take into account his feelings
I like the story, but it is closer to Caste Heaven than it is to View Finder.
Both this story and CH have "Yaoi BDSM/rapemance" as opposed to "safe, sane and consensual" BDSM. It's okay to discuss why that would bother people, but I like it knowing it is flawed. I think some of us just need to acknowledge there is something problematic there, but we like to explore it in the safety of fiction.
in reality there are plenty of relationships that have a pretty rough developement.it really does not have to do with love or respect.being a masochist or a sadist is something that does not make you unable to love.you just need to find a partner that accepts your habits.or he accepts yours.and sometimes you never know if you are one of these two things, unless you get a taste on them.actually that is what the writer is showing when she presents us an uke that cant even cum without feeling pain and suffocation.
well this is the way you do love and doesnt mean that everybody should follow the same patern for it.i am talking to you as a gay person and i ve seen plenty of situations around me you wouldnt agree with, but they always end up with a tremendous love bonding that i would wish to live too.i really respect your point of view but there is nothing here to call cheap.sadism masohism is way of life too.verbal masohism or verbal sadism also, bdsm , and many other things that are definitely not your taste as i can see :) as for the uke, he is a man and clearly a strong one as the mangaka cleary shows.he becomes weak when he sees the person he loves, and because they both really dont know how to love except from provoking and beeing possesive they are in the process of teaching each other.if they needed tenderness and fluffyness they wouldnt be together.
all my respect to you, I am so in love with gay people, its not like I want everyone to follow my believes, i was searching for some relief when I asked "it is just me that hates this", also: I am not talking just about gay people, in my life I saw so much cheap girls that I myself hated being a girl.
my meaning of cheap not about sleeping with so many people but s.one without pride and always please his lover just so the lover wouldn't leave him. I understand that for other people this is not cheap, well I have my reasons because I lived with a mother without even a say before her husband.he always treat her badly, doesn't value her, always bad mouthing her, cheating on her....and so many things and she always the one that goes to reconcile with him saying that she can't live without him,PS: she is a working woman.
yeah i totally understand , because i have experienced a similar situation.and these people are more than trash,when they force others do things without consent. especially when there is an inequality on partners on strenght level.we pretty much all have that sick insecurity syndrome when we are in love, and sometimes we might even get abused just because they think its logic to manipulate their own partners, and most of times its their only way to feel superior...i once had a relationship like that but i left because i would never feel equal with my partner.but in this case both of them are provoking each other equally , they are equally intense.a man that is a mad dog ready to kill everyone would never let someone strangle him if he didnt like the sensation.he would never provoke him if he didnt want to get "punished".in this situation he discovered a new sensation which he loves so much that he cannot even handle it.
is it just me who hate this manga????, I cant stand the seme and I will not ever accept a behavior like that from my man, well every one value himself as he likes