um the fact that it's a dream doesn't really change her ugly attitude
she’s new to sex. she does know the in’s and out’s.
LMAOOOO apparently it's very reasonable to physically abuse someone (a BDSM community member) in order to quench your anger and frustration about their true identity (masked as an idol group member) just because you're a virgin? fuck yeah. totally okay. you make no fucking sense.
okay calm the fuck down because i was not having my attitude. he ASKED to be hit and even CAME from it. to him it doesn’t matter because he likes it. HE ASKED FOR MORE.
ok ill apologize for the attitude but your defense is very frustrating. he asked for it sure but she gave it with an intention to release her pent-up disbelief and angst for the fact that he wasn't the sugar-coated idol she expected him to be. her being a virgin and the scenario being a dream does not justify any of it. you don't inflict abuse on someone in a pretense of BDSM just because you judge them for living their lives.
i think we are meeting each other half way! The only reason why I brought her being a 30 yr old virgin into this is bc BDSM stopped being taboo only recently. also idolizing people isn’t healthy for you or the person you idolize. saw the mix of him going against what she thought he was supposed to be in him being a masochist made her really defensive,, I do agree what she did was wrong but in the end it was a dream and he did get off to it.
i think a lot of you are missing the fact that these are dreams and that she is a 30 year old virgin. what happened with wigrum is totally unacceptable tho!