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((Doesn't have much to do with the manga))

Tsumi December 25, 2020 1:41 am

Reading some of the comments makes me wonder if it's ok for me, a bi woman, to date a lesbian. Like I know it's ok but idk

I've know about this prejudice towards bi people but I've never encountered it irl, probably also bc I know more bi people than gay/lesbians, but this unsure feeling has been bothering me since I wanted to try an dating app, and I wasn't sure if i chatted with a girl, then would i have to make clear that I'm bi? If i'm bi would they dont wabt anything? Would it be better if I date bi women or men? That's kinda what has been keeping me from dating apps so yea

Haha this doesn't have much to do with the story I just wanted to get it of my chest bc it's been bothering me for a while and I didn't talked to someone abt it

Responses
    Sourbitch December 26, 2020 7:14 pm

    Dude, of course it is okay. You are just as valid. You can date anyone you like as long as they are consenting to it. Some people seem to forget that sexuality is fluid and thats the whole point of the lgbtq+.. to be all inclusive. Anyone who invalidates you and guilts you about it is trash. Since it doesn't effect their business. They can prefer not to date a bi person but they have no right to disregard you. Differnt peolle have different preferences and that's okay. I personally have no issue with it as tons of people out there so don't worry about it! You got this!

    cloclo December 27, 2020 2:05 pm

    If you don't feel comfortable disclosing your sexuality, you don't have to. Being attracted to women is enough and if you encounter a lesbian who says she won't date a bi girl because and only because they are bi this is biphobia plain and simple

    Tsumi January 1, 2021 11:35 am
    Dude, of course it is okay. You are just as valid. You can date anyone you like as long as they are consenting to it. Some people seem to forget that sexuality is fluid and thats the whole point of the lgbtq+..... Sourbitch

    Thanks:) i needed this haha

    Tsumi January 1, 2021 11:35 am
    If you don't feel comfortable disclosing your sexuality, you don't have to. Being attracted to women is enough and if you encounter a lesbian who says she won't date a bi girl because and only because they are ... cloclo

    Alright! Thanks:)

    Sourbitch January 1, 2021 1:12 pm
    Thanks:) i needed this haha Tsumi

    Hehe no problem! Good luck cutie (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    yaoibuffet January 13, 2021 4:56 pm

    I just think if u know how to treat ur partner, bi or gay.. ur relationship will last long. Dont worry sbt how people perceive u and ur sexuality all u gotta do is show em how u can treat ur partner good