Sabita yoru demo koi wa sasayaku is the only one I've read recently can remember of the top of my head and also here is the tag for abuse.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sabita_yoru_demo_koi_wa_sasayaku/
http://www.mangago.me/tag/abusive+boyfriend/
Lol Here's another one I just remembered http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/devil_s_thoroughbred/
And my fav tag, it has a lot of stuff in that category
http://www.mangago.me/tag/twisted/?page=1
Hope it helps ... I'll try and see if I remember anymore( ̄∇ ̄")
And one more that I love.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yami_bl/bt/248426/Vol1_Ch10/
I search yaoi mangas where the seme hits his uke
Thankss :)