Way to prove my point.
You believe gender doesn't "need discussion", therefore you go off on people who feel differently.
Shame on you for trying to tell other people what questions they can and cant' ask.
i'm just saying these specific ones would normally be very rude!! how can you not understand that??? and they're not JUST asking questions about it! that's my problem! they put labels on Akihito already! even when it said in the manga that Akihito is a girl!
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Nope, still don't get it.................
What you consider rude is irrelevant.
These discussions aren't even about real people.
Users here are simply enjoying an exchange of ideas and opinions, but you feel compelled to crap all over that because YOU don't think they should.
Well, I think you should try not imposing your views on others.
it doesn't matter if it's fiction or if these people don't exist. but i'm just saying that i would have no problem with what they were doing if actual trans people in real life wouldn't have a problem with it. some trans people don't like their gender being "discussed" about. that's why it is rude. and if they are gonna discuss it, they could at least use the words "identify as" because trans people don't have a gender, they're both. that's why i said they put a label on Akihito.
Your thoughts are damaging.
There are real women in the world who are masculine enough to be mistaken for a man. Not even an androgynous man, broad shoulders, moustache, lack of breasts. You saying that just because they look like a man therefore has to be a man is damaging to these people. She's a woman who has more masculine traits, hormones can do that to a person. She could have been born with more male hormones than the average girl and yes each female have a certain amount of male hormones just like each men have certain amount of female hormones
Aki is a woman, if men could give birth the father wouldn't have been against the main couple as much as he did. Aki is a woman who wants to be treated like a woman despite her masculine looks. They've already said that Aki is the girlfriend, Aki said that he is the only who treats her like a woman. It's a complex that most women with masculine features would have. Please respect that.
When you say these kinds of things, it scares people. Because we don't want you saying these to people in real life, just because you may not encounter them, they do exist. Especially with the stubborn way you hold on to Aki's appearances.
Another member of the thought police...
Sorry to burst your bubble, but you are not as all-knowing as you think you are and people are not as simple as you'd like to believe.
And before your ask anyone for respect, you should try learning how to to give it, since that's a skill you clearly lack.
no, she's giving appropriate respect to whatever you said. you are the one lacking respect. i can't understand how you would think that it would ever be right to "discuss" someone's gender. it's not okay at all because it's none of your business! it's not "intellectual conversation", it's just being plain rude. if you were born with a penis and a pair of breasts and had a masculine face, would you want the people around you going, "oh that's gotta be a woman!" or "it's gotta be a man!". Or maybe you did have breasts, but you were flat chested and face was feminine instead. would you want that? do you want people butting their asses into your personal life? no, you wouldn't. because everyone enjoys their privacy and who they are is not a matter of discussion, unless they themselves want to discuss it. you don't understand that there are things you don't just talk about and/or question, or "discuss". it's disgusting.
I never ask you to give ME respect. I don't want that. Please read again. It seems you have trouble comprehending what was said.
I said respect people. People's gender, their insecurities. Don't let my argument go over your head or diminish it when you know you have no good arguments. You did not counter an ounce of what I said and simply used emotional attacks about respect that has no bearing on the argument itself.
The character is a woman, don't diminish her identity. The author has also drawn woman that could be and HAVE been mistaken for man before. Please don't discount people's gender because you WANT them to be a certain way.
And I'm not sure about your obsession with the thought police. Do you always confront people who are telling you facts as thought police. Do you read facts and think people are controlling your thoughts? Are you that close-minded not to think about people's arguments and see if they have any truth in it rather than simply dismissing it.
If you are unable to take people's comments and understand it and then bring forth your own argument then you should not be commenting or replying to people's comments in the first place. If you are going to once again reply with something that has nothing to do with the argument at hand. Do me a favour and don't reply.
@errant belle you sound so ignorant.everyone who disagrees with you=member of thought police lol what does that even mean.also reading your answers made me cringe so hard
ikr! and the entire point of these is to respond THOUGHTFULLY to people. she doesn't make any sense!
So is Aki a trans woman then? I would love a story about her and Tarou!!!