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Postpartum depression

sourlime January 25, 2021 6:20 am

A few people are discussing about whose fault is it.

In my opinion, the MC, Husband, and Child are all innocent.

The husband was only 19 when his father died. He inherited a dukedom with relatives trying to take advantage of him and his young pregnant wife. He was sent to war when his wife was pregnant with their first child. Before he left, she was already getting upset and refusing to talk to him. I cannot imagine how hard it was to left a pregnant wife, and telling her don't worry- he will be back. I'm sure he thought about what is the chance that he wouldn't be able to come back to see his wife and child. It did seems that he does like MC. When he came back - his father was dead, his relatives are pressuring his heavily pregnant wife, his father in law was on the death bed, and also the situation with the 1st and 2nd prince taking the throne. After the birth of his child, he went out leaving his wife and newborn to go calm the dukedom. The burden he carried on his shoulders didn't collapse and killed him was already a blessing for him. When he found out that his wife is having a hard time, he chose to let her reclaim freedom. I do think he truly does love her. I do not know about his relationship with their child, since it's not mention yet.


MC was only 17 when her father informed her that she will get marry after her coming to age ceremony because he doesn't know if he can last longer. Also, her family future depend on who she choose to marry. Yea, I'm sure that is just what every 17 years old social butterfly want to hear. The count that she did not choose told her that her husband did not marry her because he love her, but because she was the best choice to decline the Princess's proposal. I do think the Princess did something that was why the husband did not show up at MC's coming to age ceremony. The MC thinks she was in a loveless marriage, and both side are doing this because it's the 'best choice'. If the MC did not get pregnant so quickly after the marriage. I think they would have been able to talk things out, and realized that they weren't in a loveless marriage. MC was loved by her family, and a social butterfly. She only understand what it was like to be at the center of attention. Then comes pregnancy- everyone attention is on the baby. Within roughly a year: (loveless) marriage, moving to a home, pregnancy, isolation (She didn't go out as often and her family didn't visit as often either), husband went to war (Doesn't know if he will come back alive while she is pregnant with their first child), sick father, father in law died, husband's relatives trying to take control of the dukedom (Defending the dukedom until her husband returns), husband return (Dragging his cousin's corpse - Also, killing a lot of his other relatives), no respect from dukedom's vassal after she became the duchness, her father died, and her sister miscarriage.


Child- he is completely innocent. It's not like he choose to come early. This is why kids remember birth control is very important. It's not an easy task for both parents and kids. I truly do not think it's anyone fault.

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