I’ve read the comments about hating the scene where the ML forgave his parents. I think we sometimes forget that forgiveness is not about excusing mistakes or erasing wrongdoings, it’s about choosing peace for yourself.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean you suddenly forget the pain or pretend nothing happened. Healing isn’t instant, and trust isn’t automatically restored. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean everything goes back to the way it was.
Even if we choose to cut people off, if resentment still lingers in our hearts, we can never truly be free. Distance may protect us, but unresolved anger keeps us tied to the pain.
Asking for forgiveness and offering it is simply a beginning. It opens the door to healing, not because the past no longer matters, but because holding onto bitterness only continues the hurt. Forgiveness is not for those who wronged us; it’s for ourselves, so we can finally let go, breathe, and move forward
All his life, Jeon felt used and taken advantage of. When he met Dohu and got along with him, he thought Dohu was genuinely interested in building a real relationship.
I know that Jeon can be hypocritical. He faked emotions and interactions with other people, yet he doesn’t want Dohu to fake anything with him. But that’s exactly what makes his situation complicated. When you finally meet someone who truly matters, you start craving honesty and realness because you’re tired of pretending. It’s not about being perfect. It’s about finally wanting something genuine after a lifetime of feeling used.
At the same time, Dohu’s side matters too. He never faked his emotions. He just has a hard time recognizing or understanding them. He struggles to process what he feels, and that can make him seem cold or detached.
Maybe Jeon would’ve given him a chance to explain, but when you’ve spent your whole life being deceived, it’s hard to believe in someone whose sincerity you can’t fully read. Once trust is broken, love alone isn’t always enough. Both of them are hurting — Jeon because he’s scared of being used again, and Dohu because he doesn’t know how to prove that his feelings are real.
In my case, I wouldn’t get mad at Dohu. But I’m not Jeon. I grew up with different experiences, so I see things differently. Jeon isn’t me, and he doesn’t have to think or feel like I do. Even if someone has gone through the same experiences as Dohu, that doesn’t mean they’ll react or feel the same way either. We’re all unique. We're a product of both NATURE AND NURTURE.
What really bothers me is when people invalidate someone else’s feelings or dismiss them as “minor.” You didn’t live their lives, so you don’t get to decide what should or shouldn’t hurt them
Guys, I understand that some of you might not like Riri, especially because she felt hurt when she was called "weird," yet didn't seem to feel guilty about calling Hiro the same. At her age, Riri is likely in the preoperational stage. During this stage, children are naturally more self-centered, meaning they tend to view the world from their own perspective and struggle to understand others' feelings or viewpoints. This doesn’t mean her behavior is okay, but it’s a normal part of growing up that we all go through at some point.
PS. I'm a sucker for children developmental theories









i stan ml and his secretary! pla author give this to me. i was still broken since wetsand cuz my ahio aint sailing