I’m tired of commenting on everyone else posts, so I’ll make my own. I’ll go through ever point I’ve seen, and explain why it’s incorrect. Match your point to mine to see an explanation.“They’ve played multiple times before and did worse”
Yes, but consent does not carry. Especially in bdsm. Just because someone agreed once before, does not give their partner the right to their body indefinitely. In real bdsm, each play is discussed beforehand and is approved on by both parties. Clearly this didn’t happen, because chanwoo was shocked at md’s instructions.
“It’s bdsm they can be hit”
No. Bdsm is consensual, and chanwoo did not and can not consent.
“Why can’t he consent?”
He is shown several times to be mentally and emotionally incapable. Md choked him to see if he was capable of saying the safeword. It was confirmed that he couldn’t when he did not say it. Chanwoo is shown with a bruised face and repeatedly brushes off concern with “I’m fine”.
“He knows how md feels but he goes to the other guy anyways”
A person is never, ever obligated to return someone’s unrequited feelings. After md confessed, chanwoo politely refused And wished to keep a casual bdsm relationship. Because they stated beforehand that they want their bdsm and romantic lives separate, md’s feelings do not belong in their plays.
“How is he being manipulated? This is unrelated to their plays”
Yes, personal feelings should be left out of bdsm. MD knows that, but he puts them there anyways. Md also knows that chanwoo values him as a bdsm partner and as a friend, so when chanwoo attempted to introduce md to his boyfriend and he clearly was upset, no plays should’ve been initiated until md could cool down his feelings. Chanwoo was given an ultimatum, in that he either participate in the play or never communicate with md again. He fears losing md, so he agrees despite clearly not wanting to. This is coercion, and a coerced person cannot consent.
“Md is upset because chanwoo hurt his feelings so that’s why he hit him like that”
Again, unrequited feelings are never obligated to be returned, and personal feelings have no place in a casual bdsm relationship. Yes this hurt his feelings, but hurt feelings are never an excuse to coerce or hurt another person.
“He deserves it”
No one deserves abuse. Ever.
“How is it abuse”
It is abuse because he cannot consent. No consent = abuse/rape.
“I’ve been in a bdsm relationship that had plays exactly like this and I’m fine”
I’m sorry you’ve been abused before, but you should not use it as leverage to excuse other abuse.
“It’s just fiction why are you mad”
I, and many others, are mad because this abuse is being disguised as bdsm. This is harmful to the bdsm community, because it puts us in a bad light, and relates us to abusers. We are only attempting to keep our community’s image clear.
screaming about the misogynistic traits etc in stories isn't gonna do shit, especially on a website like this. If you have a problem go talk directly to authors. please understand that the creators don't live in westernised countries so don't find it surprising if being gay is depicted as bad in a manga.
Yep. Older than everyone who's posted so far. I'm here and likely to be for years to come. I agree that the community here seems to be pretty young. I wonder if the popularity of Chinese webtoons might have something to do with it. Color, short chapters, and no sex. They make good early-stage introductions even if many of them are weak. Personal......
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There is almost no space under the pictures in the album to write an adequate description, so I spoke as briefly as I possibly could. I might seem blunt, but it's because of space, not intent. I truly hope not to insult, but to help.
I can't over look it anymore, its too obvious now. I'm finna try find some examples cause I just can't XD
Sugar, I'll be 50 in a few months. I've been reading on this site for 5 years now. I know exactly what you mean. I also have to take breaks from here. Otherwise, my fingers itch to wrap around a few slender fujoshi necks. Okay, that is an exaggeration... but I do get bitchy. My last "break" lasted almost an entire year. It also doesn't help that to......
These debates/discussions always make me laugh my ass off. You all do realize you're reading soft-core gay porn for women, right? Do you make a habit of deconstructing all the porn you consume? If yaoi isn't porn, why do so many readers hide it like it was their older brother's Penthouse Magazine? Maybe you've never been exposed to porn before? If ......
You can tell how young and inexperienced the commenters are based on how they don't understand Nemu's actions. It's spelled out right in this chapter, plus combined with Ruka's attempts to break them up and Maya's refusal to talk about anything that makes him uncomfortable (lying about Ruka is very suspicious even to very trusting couples, and refusing to talk about his previous breakups and getting mad at Nemu for even bringing it up is not good). All players here are guilty and it has led to one big miscommunication to a very insecure and unsure character, Nemu. Nemu taking a step back to reevaluate his own behavior instead of going nuclear is actually a healthy thing to do. Maya reacting they way he has does suck, but that doesn't mean that Nemu has to sacrifice figuring things out for himself and his mental health just to make Maya stop being depressed. Maya also needs to take a step back and reevaluate how he seems to only be willing to talk once things have already blown up, as opposed to just not shutting down talking when Nemu barely voices his concerns. And Nemu needs to learn to speak up when he does have concerns rather than let them build up and not let small things concern him so much, as he is trying to figure out now.
Oh I find the scan group already translated chapter 8 .(link: https://exiledrebelsscanlations.com/love-nest/)
when will mangago update it (⊙…⊙ ) ?
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So probably most people here know about Lezhin as a lot of the comics on this site are taken from Lezhin. Many also know that currently there are a lot of accusations surrounding the payments of the authors working for Lezhin. I see a lot of people here talking about it and saying they don't want to contribute to Lezhin considering the controversy ......
Since you put this issue very serious (like, literally posting here asking people), I'll answer seriously too. 1. Yes, I'll be honest, I'm straight girl who likes dicks so I prefer yaoi since it has more dicks in the sex scene. 2. It's not written as "fujioshi", it's "fujoshi". Fujoshi : girls who love yaoi. Since you're dude, you're "fudanshi" me......
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Mookyul Eun from Totally Captivated, hands down. I cry everytime I see his face and body.
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