He's been through so much. An 8 year abusive relationship is the last thing I would wish on anyone. I keep seeing people blame him. If I were him I probably would've just k*lled myself. This is too hard to read. I want Woojin to get help from a professional and be healthy.
I just blame his cheating and his choice to hide it from taehwan. He’s not a bad person, he’s a bad partner due to his trauma. He definitely needs professional help, like intense help, intensive therapy wit... HRAensn
I think the cheating really stems from his environment the most. The cheating wasn't always consensual either. It's been rough for him :(
I think the cheating really stems from his environment the most. The cheating wasn't always consensual either. It's been rough for him :( Me me B boi
Trauma can’t excuse everything though, hence the “wasn’t always.” That very first time was very consensual for him seeing how much he was into it. We gotta acknowledge the characters wrongs and not bury it under the excuse of trauma. Not everyone who’s been in long abusive relationships choose to cheat on their next partner, it isn’t something that should be overlooked. Mc doing that caused trauma for someone else, which we fail to point out.
I think the cheating really stems from his environment the most. The cheating wasn't always consensual either. It's been rough for him :( Me me B boi
How did I not see this reply? Late reply! The cheating was consensual. At least at the start it was, the point is: Woojin went to Minho’s home without being told to go there or brainwashed, he jumped into that man’s arms and allowed to be kissed and had sex. It was all consensual. As for the blackmail afterwards, Minho saying he will tell Taehwan, Woojin got scared because he didn’t want Taehwan to find out…which is selfish of Woojin and disgusting that he continues to hide it.
It’s not like the blackmail was bad either, in fact I would’ve liked if Taehwan found out earlier. Instead, Woojin continued to lie out of fear and hide it, being dishonest and a bad partner overall.
Woojin CHOSE to hide it, it isn’t exactly because of trauma. He just doesn’t want Taehwan to know because he’s selfish, he basically wants to keep Minho and Taehwan without Taehwan knowing.
I feel bad for Taehwan, having to be cheated on twice (one by his ex and one by his new partner Woojin).
Having trauma doesn’t justify hurting your partner, Woojin better seek help and author better not make taehwan forgive him so easily.
Trauma can’t excuse everything though, hence the “wasn’t always.” That very first time was very consensual for him seeing how much he was into it. We gotta acknowledge the characters wrongs and not bury... chocobuun
Exactly. Woojin is insecure because of his trauma, but his cheating wasn’t because of his trauma, IT WAS HIS CHOICE. He made that choice and continued to be selfish by hiding it. Sure Minho was wrong for blackmailing, but was it really a bad blackmailing when Taehwan deserves to know the truth?
The black mail was about Minho telling Woojin to continue having sex with him or he will tell taehwan. And Woojin made the choice to continue cheating until Taehwan found out himself.
Just because MC has trauma does not justify him hurting his partner. He is quite selfish and hypocritical imo. Taehwan has been quite the supporting and one of the most green flag MLs, hate seeing him cry.
He's been through so much. An 8 year abusive relationship is the last thing I would wish on anyone. I keep seeing people blame him. If I were him I probably would've just k*lled myself. This is too hard to read. I want Woojin to get help from a professional and be healthy.
I just blame his cheating and his choice to hide it from taehwan. He’s not a bad person, he’s a bad partner due to his trauma.
He definitely needs professional help, like intense help, intensive therapy with a psychiatrist.
i agree. i need him to get away from the toxicity and heal. the true happy ending would be when he’s finally at peace with himself
I think the cheating really stems from his environment the most. The cheating wasn't always consensual either. It's been rough for him :(
Trauma can’t excuse everything though, hence the “wasn’t always.” That very first time was very consensual for him seeing how much he was into it. We gotta acknowledge the characters wrongs and not bury it under the excuse of trauma. Not everyone who’s been in long abusive relationships choose to cheat on their next partner, it isn’t something that should be overlooked. Mc doing that caused trauma for someone else, which we fail to point out.
How did I not see this reply?
Late reply! The cheating was consensual. At least at the start it was, the point is: Woojin went to Minho’s home without being told to go there or brainwashed, he jumped into that man’s arms and allowed to be kissed and had sex. It was all consensual. As for the blackmail afterwards, Minho saying he will tell Taehwan, Woojin got scared because he didn’t want Taehwan to find out…which is selfish of Woojin and disgusting that he continues to hide it.
It’s not like the blackmail was bad either, in fact I would’ve liked if Taehwan found out earlier. Instead, Woojin continued to lie out of fear and hide it, being dishonest and a bad partner overall.
Woojin CHOSE to hide it, it isn’t exactly because of trauma. He just doesn’t want Taehwan to know because he’s selfish, he basically wants to keep Minho and Taehwan without Taehwan knowing.
I feel bad for Taehwan, having to be cheated on twice (one by his ex and one by his new partner Woojin).
Having trauma doesn’t justify hurting your partner, Woojin better seek help and author better not make taehwan forgive him so easily.
Exactly. Woojin is insecure because of his trauma, but his cheating wasn’t because of his trauma, IT WAS HIS CHOICE. He made that choice and continued to be selfish by hiding it. Sure Minho was wrong for blackmailing, but was it really a bad blackmailing when Taehwan deserves to know the truth?
The black mail was about Minho telling Woojin to continue having sex with him or he will tell taehwan. And Woojin made the choice to continue cheating until Taehwan found out himself.
Just because MC has trauma does not justify him hurting his partner. He is quite selfish and hypocritical imo. Taehwan has been quite the supporting and one of the most green flag MLs, hate seeing him cry.